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Kaffir Lily is an offensive name
David Hill wrote:
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Kaffir Lily is an offensive name
On Sun, 4 Apr 2004 18:36:57 +0100, Janet Baraclough.. wrote:
The message from "David Hill" contains these words: Yes there is a lot of political correctness gone mad.I believe that you still talk about "Black berries", Here some of the Politically correct brigade insist that they be referred to now as "Bramble fruit". To help you avoid being offensive due to ignorance; the term kaffir equates to "******", not "black". Yeah, but it relates to "******" in SOUTH AFRICA. A third world country just about as far away on the planet as any place can be from the US. I would understand offense IN THE UNITED STATES if someone IN THE UNITIED STATES called a plant a "****** Lily". I wouldn't use the term myself. But I do not CARE if the word is offensive in some distant country in some way that is not meaningful in my own country. I don't CARE if the word "kaffir" is a slur against ethnic Bantus in South Africa, because I'm never going to go to South Africa and am most likely never going to meet a Bantu. The thing is, many, many, many words used in one language or country has a different meaning if you go to in a different language or country. Take for instance (since you are in the UK) the word "fanny". It means "butt" in the US, and "pussy" over there. What about "shag"? Means a dance over here, and "****" over there. And that barely even touches the surface of the problem. I, personally, neither have the time or the interest to make sure that every word that I use is NOT, in some language and in some country, offensive to some individual or group. |
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Kaffir Lily is an offensive name
paghat wrote:
So anyone who wishes to clean the word "Kaffir Lily" out of their personal vocabulary because, hey, this is the world wide web, & it really is like hanging out at least partly in South Africa -- then for that choice I say "Ahu!", hooray!, how polite you are. But if someone just thinks it's a vulgar word in every context & nobody should use it anywhere ever who isn't a racist, then to them I also say "Ahu!", stupid! -paghat the ratgirl Words are nothing but letters or sounds put together, depending on whether you're writing or speaking. In and of themselves, those letters or sounds are not offensive alone or together. Context makes them offensive. There is the context of the writer or speaker, and the context of the reader or listener involved here. Some people are so offended when they read or hear particular words that they can't or won't consider the context of the writer or speaker. My personal opinion is that our problems, in order of severity and importantance a 1. Writers/speakers who intend their words to be offensive in context, 2. Readers/listeners who are so offended by particular words that they don't consider the writer/speaker's context, 3. Readers/listeners who misinterpret the writer/speaker's context, 4. Writers/speakers who don't take reasonable care to see that their context is not easily misinterpreted to be offensive, 5. Writers/speakers and readers/listeners who aren't even aware that they words could be offensive in certain contexts. Unfortunately too many people focus on the least severe and important situation. That means either the more severe and important issues have been resolved (ha!), or they have nothing better to do than raise hell. (Or perhaps they're not equipped to handle the more important issues, and draw attention away from their inabilities by making such a big deal over the less important issues.) But it all still comes down to context. Words are just letters or sounds. Context gives those words meaning. It is only once they have meaning that they can be offensive. -- Warren H. ========== Disclaimer: My views reflect those of myself, and not my employer, my friends, nor (as she often tells me) my wife. Any resemblance to the views of anybody living or dead is coincidental. No animals were hurt in the writing of this response -- unless you count my dog who desperately wants to go outside now. Blatant Plug: Spend your Amazon gift certificates he http://www.holzemville.com/mall/associateshop.html |
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Kaffir Lily is an offensive name
On Sun, 04 Apr 2004 16:49:33 -0400, Darren Garrison
wrote: I, personally, neither have the time or the interest to make sure that every word that I use is NOT, in some language and in some country, offensive to some individual or group. Interesting. To busy for common courtesy or respect. Any word perceived as a hate word should be eliminated from common usage. Such as, ******, Kaffir or Kafir (I used to think there was a difference). How about Wop, Dike, Queer, Kike, Frog, Coon Ass, Mick? Has our educational system slipped so far that the graduates from elementary school are unable to express themselves without the use of such words? I know it is the parents responsibility to stop such hatred. Unfortunately it isn't happening. zhan |
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Kaffir Lily is an offensive name
Interesting. To busy for common courtesy or respect. Any word
perceived as a hate word should be eliminated from common usage. Such as, ******, Kaffir or Kafir (I used to think there was a difference). How about Wop, Dike, Queer, Kike, Frog, Coon Ass, Mick? Has our educational system slipped so far that the graduates from elementary school are unable to express themselves without the use of such words? I saw a queer thing this morning. A frog was sitting on a dike. I asked him, "How come you are sitting on your ass lookin' like Mick Jagger?" He told me that a big rock fell out of the sky and hit the water right in front of him it made a sound like "wop" and threw him up on the dike. Then along came a possum and a coon and he was so scared he decided to spend the day until all the big animals went away. Words are just words until someone let's them get under their skin. Use 'em right or use 'em wrong, but they're just words. |
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Kaffir Lily is an offensive name
On Sun, 04 Apr 2004 17:08:31 -0500, zhanataya wrote:
Interesting. To busy for common courtesy or respect. Any word perceived as a hate word should be eliminated from common usage. Such as, ******, Kaffir or Kafir (I used to think there was a difference). How about Wop, Dike, Queer, Kike, Frog, Coon Ass, Mick? Has our educational system slipped so far that the graduates from elementary school are unable to express themselves without the use of such words? "Hate" is an emotion, not a word (okay, so "hate" IS a word, but you know what I mean). Just by writing a word that somebody, somewhere conciders offensive does NOT mean that I hate anyone. And my point is, the word "kaffir" has ABSOLUTELY NO MEANING to me, and I would be willing to bet that it has no meaning to 99.99% of all people that I have ever met in my life (I did know one white exchange student from Zimbabwae that may or may not have heard the word before). To answer your question, NO, I am NOT going to stop using a word that I have used all of my life just because it turns out that it has some impolite meaning in some distant country or at some time in the distant past. (And, BTW, out of the list you gave above, the only one I use is "Frog" to describe the French-- and it is because I WANT to insult the French). Ribbit! |
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Kaffir Lily is an offensive name
On Sun, 4 Apr 2004 18:21:23 -0400, "Ricky" wrote:
I saw a _explitive_deleted_ thing this morning. A _explitive_deleted_ was sitting on a _explitive_deleted_. I asked him, "How come you are sitting on your _explitive_deleted_ lookin' like _explitive_deleted_ Jagger?" He told me that a big rock fell out of the sky and hit the water right in front of him it made a sound like "_explitive_deleted_" and threw him up on the _explitive_deleted_. Then along came a _explitive_deleted_ and a _explitive_deleted_ and he was so scared he decided to spend the day until all the big animals went away. Cleaned up so as to not offend thin-skinned morons. |
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Kaffir Lily is an offensive name
zhanataya wrote: ....How about Wop, Dike, Queer, Kike, Frog, Coon Ass, Mick? It's not "dike", it's "dyke". I oughta know. |
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Kaffir Lily is an offensive name
In article , zhanataya
wrote: On Sun, 04 Apr 2004 16:49:33 -0400, Darren Garrison wrote: I, personally, neither have the time or the interest to make sure that every word that I use is NOT, in some language and in some country, offensive to some individual or group. Interesting. To busy for common courtesy or respect. Any word perceived as a hate word should be eliminated from common usage. Such as, ******, Kaffir or Kafir (I used to think there was a difference). How about Wop, Dike, Queer, Kike, Frog, Coon Ass, Mick? Has our educational system slipped so far that the graduates from elementary school are unable to express themselves without the use of such words? I know it is the parents responsibility to stop such hatred. Unfortunately it isn't happening. zhan Dyke is a pretty word, a good word, a useful word; I used to stop around Seattle in a leather jacket that said DYKE on the back, & it upset nobody. My current jacket hasn't been decorated as I'm a bit old to ever again feel like being fashionable. But I still wear my Sex Pistols, Neurosis, & Dead Kennedys t-shirts, & they get more comments than ever did the Dyke jacket. Fact is, any word can be said with affection, you dear old kike you. Anyone who can't figure that out has AT LEAST as much of a problem as people who actually like the words, & very likely a bigger problem. -paghat the ratgirl -- "Of what are you afraid, my child?" inquired the kindly teacher. "Oh, sir! The flowers, they are wild," replied the timid creature. -from Peter Newell's "Wild Flowers" See the Garden of Paghat the Ratgirl: http://www.paghat.com/ |
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Kaffir Lily is an offensive name
In article , "Ricky"
wrote: Interesting. To busy for common courtesy or respect. Any word perceived as a hate word should be eliminated from common usage. Such as, ******, Kaffir or Kafir (I used to think there was a difference). How about Wop, Dike, Queer, Kike, Frog, Coon Ass, Mick? Has our educational system slipped so far that the graduates from elementary school are unable to express themselves without the use of such words? I saw a queer thing this morning. A frog was sitting on a dike. I asked him, "How come you are sitting on your ass lookin' like Mick Jagger?" He told me that a big rock fell out of the sky and hit the water right in front of him it made a sound like "wop" and threw him up on the dike. Then along came a possum and a coon and he was so scared he decided to spend the day until all the big animals went away. Words are just words until someone let's them get under their skin. Use 'em right or use 'em wrong, but they're just words. Right. The irony of any free speech argument being about what CANNOT be said....well, yes, words are powerful, that's why people use them. Most arguments for why not to express oneself in this manner is in reality an argument to do so. Any one who can't tell the difference between "This is my main ******" & "let's lynch some ******s" just isn't going to have any ideas worthy of their right to free speech, but I uphold their sacred right to be shallow & boring & call that "politeness" while impolitely telling other people they're not shallow & boring enough. There is nver anyone so far distant from polite who demands of others. In fact, now that I think of it, of the words Cocksuck & Polite, Politis the dirtier word -- if one judges the context of the speakers demandin milquetoast behaviors & anti-free-speech pseudo-politeness of others.There is only one good argument for cleaning up one's image: "you're addressing children, so stop being such a dirty ****." Adults telling adults how they have to speak is totally lame. "If President Kennedy got on television and said:'I'm considering appointing two or three of the top ******s in the country to my cabinet'-if it was nothing but ******, ******, ****** - in six months ****** wouldn't mean any more than good night, god bless you. when that beautiful day comes, you'll never see another ****** kid come home from school crying because some mother****er called him a ******." -Lenny Bruce "I'm a ******," Lubel said fervently. "I'm a ******!" Confused, the three teens looked at one another. One declared: "That ******'s crazy!" -paghat the ratgirl -- "Of what are you afraid, my child?" inquired the kindly teacher. "Oh, sir! The flowers, they are wild," replied the timid creature. -from Peter Newell's "Wild Flowers" See the Garden of Paghat the Ratgirl: http://www.paghat.com/ |
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Judy wrote in :
zhanataya wrote: ....How about Wop, Dike, Queer, Kike, Frog, Coon Ass, Mick? It's not "dike", it's "dyke". I oughta know. no sense in using the wrong spelling to offend the lebanese folk |
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Kaffir Lily is an offensive name
Thanks Janet. Actually I thought the kaffirs were the native-born whites, like
Afrikaaners. The Middle East and Central/Eastern Europe are more my territory for unusual ethnic names (Quick: where can you find a Rusyn? Not a Russian, a Rusyn. zemedelec |
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Kaffir Lily is an offensive name
Reading the above, the only conclusion I've managed to reach is that anyone
offended by any name must have a severe inferiority complex. Others seem to imply "Complex be damned"!! As a long serving member of the RWAFF [Royal West African Frontier Force] on the Gold Coast,[now Ghana] I accumulated numerous derogatory names, many quite true, but none that could possibly have annoyed or offended me in any way. I cannot even think of any term I would find offensive, true or not!! Calling me an 'organic gardener' might imply some degree of unmerited ignorance however. Best Wishes "Zemedelec" wrote in message ... Thanks Janet. Actually I thought the kaffirs were the native-born whites, like Afrikaaners. The Middle East and Central/Eastern Europe are more my territory for unusual ethnic names (Quick: where can you find a Rusyn? Not a Russian, a Rusyn. zemedelec |
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Kaffir Lily is an offensive name
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from Darren Garrison contains these words: I do not CARE if the word is offensive in some distant country in some way that is not meaningful in my own country. I don't CARE if the word "kaffir" is a slur against ethnic Bantus in South Africa, because I'm never going to go to South Africa and am most likely never going to meet a Bantu. This is an international newsgroup with contributors from other countries and many races. Janet |
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Kaffir Lily is an offensive name
Janet Baraclough.. wrote:
The message from Darren Garrison contains these words: I do not CARE if the word is offensive in some distant country in some way that is not meaningful in my own country. I don't CARE if the word "kaffir" is a slur against ethnic Bantus in South Africa, because I'm never going to go to South Africa and am most likely never going to meet a Bantu. This is an international newsgroup with contributors from other countries and many races. Janet But what is your point? No one here has said they were personally offended, only *vicariously* offended. Not one single Bantu has spoken up on this issue. People in Quebec City find the entire English language offensive. Maybe we should switch to French to avoid offending their sensibilities. Sincèrement, Bob |
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