"Denise" wrote in message
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Hey, no problem! Some people just think their way is the only right way
:-) .
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I feel your pain. I stopped hanging out over in rec.aquaria.freshwater.misc
because of the 'one wayers'. All I know is my 55gallon aquarium has been
running for about 5 years, and the only time I lose fish is when I listen to
the one-wayers. According to them, my tank is no better then a toilet, but
my fish are happy, healthy and best when left alone.

There are certainly reasons behind the rules, and they are worth listening
to, but IMHO, you find what works for you, and go with it.

BV.