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from Jane Lumley contains these words:

I learn from experience. Consequently I shan't waste any more of my
time offering advice to you.

I'm sorry you felt hurt - I really didn't mean to be rude. I do
appreciate your advice, and I'm grateful that you took time to write.
It truly wasn't a waste of time - I'm awed by the kindness of people on
Usenet, always.

Janet's probably a bit windswept ATM - weather-wise, of course..

--
Rusty Hinge http://www.users.zetnet.co.uk/hi-fi/tqt.htm

Dark thoughts about the Wumpus concerto played with piano,
iron bar and two sledge hammers. (Wumpus, 15/11/03)