Ahhh... but you cannot MAKE anybody feel anything. and frankly there are a lot of
people who are more than willing to be black holes of negativity without anybodys
"help". you are not a negative person. Ingrid

"madgardener" wrote:
I don't pay attention to the negative, but I also look at
what that person is saying towards me. It's an insight I don't have. They're
looking at me and probably noticing that I haven't communicated well enough
and it's causing the negative reaction.


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