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Old 26-03-2005, 09:38 PM
laurie \(Mother Mastiff\)
 
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No.

He's already shown himself to be a poor salesman because he wouldn't
listen to his customer.

He's already shown himself to be a poor cost estimater because he's
changed his price twice.

This leads one to speculate that he is also a poor performer, and the job
he would do on your yard would not match the specifications and not
fulfill your expectations.


Daniel, that's spot-on!!!

I have been almost beggared by contractors who didn't do what they were
contracted to do, or did it wrong in spite of detailed specs from me (and as
a tech writer, I can write an accurate and precise spec) because they wanted
to do it their way. But some did extras I had specifically said NOT to do,
and then threatened to sue me for the money for work I didn't want or could
not afford. They were so focused on the money they wanted and felt
"entitled" to, they got pretty ugly.

I say if they don't want to understand WHAT you want, and HOW you want it,
they won't either listen OR give you what you want. But I can pretty much
guarantee that they will find a way to make you pay them what they want.

Apparently there are a lot of well-heeled people in the area who would
rather throw money at something than think a job through or supervise a
contractor, and it has spoiled the greedy and dishonest contractors till
they think they can treat everyone like that.

I believe that single women are the most victimized by contractors and
repair people, but it is obvious that anyone honest and polite is easy to
take advantage of in the same way.

There ARE honest workers out there, this guy sounds too greedy to even
pretend to care about you, I wouldn't take a chance on him!

And no matter HOW nice or receptive someone is, DO write up a DETAILED list
of what IS and ISN'T to be done. Be specific. State who pays for what
materials, and what grade or quality will be used. Make sure the final
statement in the contract says that if any changes to this contract are
needed, they will NOT be paid unless approved by the homeowner in advance of
the work.

If there is a cost or price difference in one approach over another, choose
which one YOU want used, and specify it.

If they won't sign a contract or give you a big song and dance about how
their word has always been good enough, tell them thanks but no thanks. If
they're that straight up, and DO plan to do what you asked, AS you want it
done, they should not have any problem signing a contract saying so.

Without a contract, they can do anything they please after the work has
started, and you are over the proverbial barrel.

BTDTBTTS.

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