"Sacha" wrote after "Ken" asked

A friend of mine lost his father last week. My girl-friend and I
wanted to give his family the gift of a tree that would help to remind
him of his father. Is there a tree that is used as a memorial, or used

to ease loss or grieving? Or, is there a tree that blossoms around the
end of August? That way the flowers might serve to mark the time, each
year.
My friend lives in Pasadena, CA. We'd like something well suited for a
warm, dry climate.
Although we are not rich, money is not really an issue.

Ken, this is a UK centred group so might not be able to help you with the
best kind of plant for your area of America. The climates are so very
different. However, if it's of any help to you, Rosemary is the
traditional plant of 'remembrance', so a few such plants at the edge of a
sunny well-drained bed or in a double-skinned wall might do the trick. But
your best bet is to visit local nurseries and ask their advice.

Possibly another job for Albizia julibrissin although you would need to take
local advice on it's suitability, it can seed around in the ideal
conditions.

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Regards
Bob
In Runnymede, 17 miles West of London