Judith Lea wrote:
Actually, Janet is a very nice person who, I am sure, would never
intentionally upset you - she has taken a fair bit of unfair flack from
some unpleasant posters and perhaps this makes her suspicious at times -
quite a natural reaction to one or two nasty posters with more time on
their hands than sense. Janet is a straight talking person. I have
never know her to be unkind - and she is a font of knowledge with regard
to gardening. She has helped me many times in the past when I was very
new to urg and believe me I tried the patience of a saint - never once
did she berate me for my foolish questions but always encouraged me - I
am really fond of her - start off your relationship with her again, I
don't know what went wrong, but I do know, where possible she will try
to help you with good advice.

Very nicely put. Thank you. It is precisely with this in mind that er..
I actually mind, and quite a lot.

p.s. welcome to urg -

Thank you.

I tend to lurk more these days but I still take
all good advice where appropriate.

And you give good advice I'm sure too )