"June Hughes" wrote in message
Farm1 writes
"June Hughes" wrote in message
As one of the people accused (wrongly) by Sacha, and having been
abused
by her several times during the past ten or so years, I am
relieved
that
she has gone, (or that she says she has gone). She accused me of
something I was not guilty of and I cannot forgive her for that.
Were
she to apologise, I would gladly do so but that is highly
unlikely.

June the world we deal with is made up of fringe dwellers and
hearth
dwellers. If Sacha was one of your fringe dwellers then it is
easier
to just let it go. If she was a hearth dweller and upset you then
that is a different matter.

Usenet is not the real world. It's just entertainment or diversion
or
sometimes even a learning aid.


Some of us here have known each other a very long time. Not quite as
simple as you make out.

It's actually very simple. You are the person in control.

I too have known people on Usenet in a lot of groups for a VERY long
time and also had disagreements with them. I just don't believe that
its worth my energy to be upset by anything anyone says for too long
if at all. But then I also worked for many years negotiating with
very tough industrial unions. If one has the sort of mindset to take
offence it's not possible to survive in that sort of work for very
long.

One of the unions I worked with was famed for having a truck load of
manure delivered and dumped on the driveway of anyone on the
management team. I think the mongrels deliberately excluded me from
such a delivery as they knew I was a gardener. I'd have been only too
delighted to have had to ring work and say that I couldn't come in as
I had to move a pile of poo before I could get my car out.