K wrote:
Sacha writes

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I'm not bothering to defend against your unfair attack. The people who
matter most to me understand, and I doubt whether anyone else is
interested.
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Kay

Kay, you and I have now spoken and now that you are aware of the full
facts perhaps you will understand why Sacha defended me so vehemently.
The fact that she did so endeared her to me because such loyalty is to
be applauded. Sacha did not in any way try to attack you unfairly,
again she was probably of the opinion that you too were aware of events
leading up to this.

I know that if you had been aware, that you too would have taken issue
with the person who had caused so much grief, I can remember you
posting that you had killfiled this person because you had found her
posts objectionable and therefore you were not in full possession of
the facts. What had turned from being a neighbourly dispute evolved
into something that caused loathing to those who understood what was
going on and that was not Just Sacha but many more posters here who did
not make a statement to leave, they just no longer post here. That
does not detract from the remaining urglers who are experts, I respect
and admire them and their emails have been of great comfort. Although
I would never publish emails from individuals, I have to thank many of
you but particularly to JennyC who wrote me very moving supportive
emails, she understood my concerns and she tried hard to pour oil on
troubled water and I am grateful to her for that.

Lets wish each other a Happy Christmas and I look forward to seeing
many urglers in Norfolk next year or even in France in the Summer.

Judith - at home

I had hoped that this person would realise that by regular urglers not
responding to her posts, she would take herself back to one of the
local groups which she had left. I have noticed that apart from 2,
nobody replies to her and I accept that this is