"madgardener" wrote in message
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Good day friends.....
Madgardener, aka "Maddie" here. Not melodramatics, no fan fare, no
horns or sad sounds. Short and sweet. (for a change) things here in
Faerie Holler are going in the direction that I previously talked
about. I am facing upheavals and life changing situations that
continuously challenge me on a daily basis. I am packing my house
into boxes that I have to make sure are not silly things. Packing a
house that holds more than 40 years of memories isn't easy. Divorce
is not pretty, and when you think you know someone, you might NOT. I
WILL lose my home and Faerie Holler. I might lose the only vehicle I
have because Squire (aka John, the one day ex-husband when the divorce
comes final)decided to not pay the house note or car note, has cut off
my health insurance, the house insurance and car insurance (which
makes the over due amounts even more threatening and imminent) I am
dealing with life on this level. But in the midst of all the turmoil,
despite facing literal homelessness, I have the love and support of a
person who truly loves and adores me for the awesome woman that I
realize I've always been. I'm not perfect, but being happy makes
things more tolerable and it just goes to show that if things are
right emotionally, the rest try to fall into place. Say a job prayer
for us. We've still not landed jobs here in the eastern part of
Tennessee. To make enough to pay rent and basic things would seem
simple enough. And we're both willing to work. But it's not as easy as
it used to be. And we both have incredible qualifications.
Severely clipped and I am sorry.
Holy crow Maddie. You are in some bind. I wish I could come help you out
but damned if the Oncologist isn't keeping me busy!
I just finished 33 days of radiation and am looking to begin Chemo so
travelling is not an option.
I can say a prayer things begin to go well for you. You need a Legal Aid
Lawyer to go after John for support and insurance. We ain't getting any
younger and he should be required to keep you in the manner you were
accustomed to. Maybe. Sure worth a look-see.
Please don't sit and take what he is dishing out.
You are tougher than that. Fight a bit.

Betsy