hiI think it looks... Way too feminine (if that person is obviously straight).

I'm okay with my boyfriend carrying my Porter messenger bag because it's unisex.

But the other time I was carrying my work handbag and he wanted to carry it for me and I was like, "What do you think you're doing?"

I don't know. Guys, do you carry your girlfriend's/wife's bag?

If yes, what if they're carrying bags like these...