Originally Posted by Keengardener

I think I know how to solve your problem - there are one or two solutions but it may be to do with your mental attitude towards the Ilex. They tend to be very sensitive and thrive well if treated regularly in a positive and loving manner. I am sure if you try this for a few weeks your beautiful holly tree will flourish once more just as it should, the king of winter, its over-wintering evergreen leaves and bright red berries reaching the height of their glory on the winter solstice.
Good luck