In article c6356955-9050-45ed-a539-ff3513e26743
@y3g2000vbm.googlegroups.com, says...
I am seriously asking myself why at my age I am doing all this work
with no help.



Perhaps because you get enjoyment/satisfaction out of it?

Alternative would be to concrete everything in sight, sit back and
vegitate

PS Sorry to hear about your wife's problems.