"Paul C" wrote in message
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Hi, I wonder if any one can offer guidance on a problem that I have with
a neighbour. A number of years ago we bought our house of a lady who
moved into the cottage next door. What we hadn't appreciated was that
she would (in our opinion) struggle to watch someone else do things
differently in her former property. We have a shared boundary and in the
past few years have experienced any number of issues with her apparent
disregard for that boundary.
On one part of the boundary fence we have a very well established
ceanothus which does not extend over fence into her garden but has grown
to about 18ins above the height of the fence. It also extends about 3 or
4 feet back into our garden. A couple of days ago I discovered that our
neighbour had used a power tool with a long handled extension to lean
over into our garden and cut away the shrub so that no part of it is
above the line of the fence. When I challenged her about it she said it
had been annoying her, when I pointed out that she had no right to do
that and would she please stop interfering with us and our garden she
simply said " what are you going to do about it" and "get a life".
Bearing in mind that this lady has a laurel hedge on the same boundary
fence that is at least 3 feet above the fence line and we have
absolutely no issue with it, we are struggling to understand why she
feels the need to do these things, but more importantly we just want her
to stop. It is only a hedge, and we don't want to " lose the plot" but
this is just one of a series of incidents and is beginning to get us
down. We have no interest in " tit for tat" activities but we do need to
do something to make this stop.
Any thoughts would be much appreciated.
Paul




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Paul C

Paul if it has gone this far and now 'looks' as if it might get nasty
without 'action from outside' to put her in her place, and let's face it,
what she has done is certainly not on, then I would do what I did before
when I had a bit of neighbour problem. A Solicitor's letter. I had a very
large garden with 28 gardens backing onto it. 26 superb and I spent hours
chatting to them instead of working, however, 2 needed a letter. One was
coming onto the land and scattering rubbish which included bricks etc, the
other didn't want the hedge I put on the boundary and ran across the bottom
of their garden and sprayed weed killer on it.

Put a stop to both of them. They've got flats there now instead ;-)

Mike



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