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john east wrote:
We have some new neighbours that have moved in next door and they ask to
borrow garden tools (and car tools).

The problem for me is I have to go and ask for them back, and they are
not always there. I wanted to use my garden rake today and went around
to get it back, but they are out; so I cannot do the job.

We like these neighbours and want to remain friends. What reason can I
give to them not to lend my tools to them which will cause the minimal
amount of friction? I'm looking for an imaginative (yet plausible)
excuse to give them.

What you're doing is people pleasing or buying friendship. Neither is a
good idea long term. I'll happily lend such stuff but expect it back
immediately after use. If that doesn't happen without a good excuse, it
shows a lack of respect. And I simply won't do so again. Anyone who can't
accept this is best avoided.

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*I believe five out of four people have trouble with fractions. *

Dave Plowman London SW
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