"john east" wrote

We have some new neighbours that have moved in next door and they ask to
borrow garden tools (and car tools).

The problem for me is I have to go and ask for them back, and they are not
always there. I wanted to use my garden rake today and went around to get
it back, but they are out; so I cannot do the job.

We like these neighbours and want to remain friends. What reason can I give
to them not to lend my tools to them which will cause the minimal amount of
friction? I'm looking for an imaginative (yet plausible) excuse to give
them.
Like you I always had to go and ask for my tools back when the borrower
should have returned them once they had done the job. They are the ones that
should feel guilty not you, think how much money these people are saving by
not buying tools, they obviously think people like us are total mugs, to be
taken advantage of.

Happened to me many times, you think I would have learnt quicker. Must have
cost me over £500 replacing tools when I eventually got them back
broken/knackered. I simply don't lend stuff any more 'cause I will be using
it for ........ shortly, although I have gone and done small jobs myself for
friends but then they can't keep and use them until they break.
Just explain what has happened in the past and say I'm afraid I don't lend
stuff any more, it's too expensive to replace. If they take offence, at
least they get the message.
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Regards. Bob Hobden.
Posted to this Newsgroup from the W of London, UK