Christina Websell wrote:
The agreement was that my brother and I would share my land and the
crops, whether or not we grew them at home.

He's picked every pea and gone on holiday. I've tended the peas and
watered them and I am more than annoyed. Peas are my favourite veg.
I half want to change the padlock. I might still do it as he seems
incapable of not filling it all up and asking me what I want to grow.
I'm more than ticked off.

Is it too much to ask that he liases with me about what to grow? Given
that it's my ground and it cost a whole lot of money, but
that's not the point. He thinks he's going to get it when I die. He
isn't.

"I'm livid" - there's a song in that headline somewhere. Any songwriters
here who would like to oblige?

As for the OP, consider youself damned lucky, I planted a whole pack of seed
peas this year and what did I get in return -------- just three of the
beggers to just show their heads through the earth. In temper, I ripped 'em
up and planted annual flowers in their place to keep SWMBO happy - and the
rest of the seed peas must have acted like a flower fertiliser as the
flowers are going great guns.