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Family Fun in the garden!
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Flower gardens, landscaping and other outdoor projects enhance our property in many ways. Proper arrangements can be aesthetically pleasing or maybe a hedgerow can act as a windbreak or even a refuge for wildlife. Many an afternoon can be casually spent in a Zen-like trance removing weeds from a flower bed or tomato patch. But, as some already know, landscaping can be a real "family affair" where children from toddler to teen-ager can be very productive with the workload and enhance their sense of self-worth and accomplishment at the same time. Children love to be or help to a parent and outdoor work provides plenty of opportunities for them to participate ... even more so than most hobbies where skill and motor coordination is needed just to become involved. For example, if your outdoor fun was snow skiing your child would have to be equipped with all the gear necessary, be trained to ski and then would only be at the skill level proper for their age-group. Parents would then be requited to skiing the bunny trail if their offspring were not to such a skill level to allow anything different. Even simple things like hiking require a certain degree of motor skills and experience. Imagine traversing a rocky terrain with a four-year old. Talk about your heart being in your throat as you watch your child totter over sharp pointy rocks a slip away from a trip to the emergency room! Again, not very fulfilling for you as a parent. Outdoor projects, as opposed to the above sports type hobbies, provide plenty of room for adult skill and child participation. "Bring Mommy the little shovel," a parent could tell her child in a real-life scenario as she prepares the soil for a new tree. "Now help me take some of this dirt out of the hole." The child then becomes as involved as the parent, if not as productive. Several things are accomplished in this way. For one thing, the child feels involved and wanted instead of a hindrance to a parent. "Hey, I'm a big boy/girl," they think. "I'm being of help to my Dad and he's not yelling at me to get out of the way. Instead he's happy with me." Another important process going on is the child begins to enjoy work. They see it not as a thing they have to do like take out the trash ... an unwanted task, but a joy. Instead of sitting inside watching reruns on TV or playing the latest video game, the child is learning hand-eye coordination and even feels a sense of accomplishment after a job well done. And as a bonus, the parents receive a new tree, flower garden or other attractive addition to their yard! To contact Steve Jones with your comments and questions, send e-mail to http://www.landsteward.com |
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