And all the women will assume that you're gay :-)

Graham.

I would not worry about someone else thinks, be yourself. They will
like you for your fish and you or nothing at all. Wait 15 minutes,
another fish will swim by.
Never be impatient.

If you need a person of (same or) the opposite sex to get you to do
the things you likely need to do anyways, then you need a "boss".
The key is picking and choosing a "good boss".
Then it's a positive thing in your life and enriches it.
You have nicer tanks, nicer surrounding, better mainteance etc.
Folks need motivation(good boss), not a nagging(Bad boss).


Regards,
Tom Barr