thanks Janet. I will start doing this immediately. (I also bought a kennel
cage for the first days that she totally gets livid when Mike leaves for
work in his cloud of dust, Squire and I already being gone. He is usually
the last one out the house as he works second shift and she gets angry and
upset at all of us, but has really come down on me and my stuff recently due
to getting more days off. This last bout made me think she would start
tearing up inside plants and if she did THAT she'd have her ass in a deep
sling. Bad enough she digs up my gardens.....................I think the
cage will work since she won't be in it for more than three hours and will
have water, chewy bones and the only thing she will have to deal with is
being seperated from Rose. But knowing Rose, she will hang close by as she's
quite attached to her adopted daughter.g I will talk to Mike tonight
about how he leaves though to instill the behavior you have mentioned and
hopefully as smart as she is, she will mellow out. You'd think she felt calm
since she's been with us since July.................again, thanks Janet.
madgardener
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Lord when is this smart dog going to learn she is
loved, that we're coming back and that it's wrong to rip our things up
when
we have to go to work??

It's called separation anxiety, not uncommon especially in rescue dogs
which have experienced being left by a previous owner who never came
back. One of our rescue dogs fixed on me very strongly from the moment
he arrived and never let me out of his sight. When I returned to work
Tim started doing what Sugar does, every day during the hour alone
between me leaving and my house help arriving.

I solved it by spending a few minutes repeatedly leaving exactly as if I
was going to work, out the house to the street, then straight back
inside as if arriving home from work. The dog is only alone for two
minutes. Leave and arrive casually with just a friendly word or light
pat; don't make a great big exciting fuss of the dog at either
time.Repeat it several times each session and do it on several
successive days. The dog quickly learns to associate your departures
with you always coming back, and with a pleasant calm relaxed
atmosphere. After a couple of sessions Tim took my exits and arrivals
for granted as a normal part of life, and the problem behaviour stopped.

Janet.