In article 455eb126$0$28169$5a62ac22@per-qv1-newsreader-
01.iinet.net.au, Farm1
writes

If everyone who objected to her behaviour - and I do mean
*everyone* - had
both sat on her firmly as soon as she started her misleading, lying,
insulting and swearing behaviour, we might not have lost those
people.

I disagree. A lot of people cannot stomach any form of disagreement

I agree, with both of you.


I agreee that the behaviour of Puke to Judith was nothing short of
disgusting, and some idiots wrote some ridiculous things. BUT, to
blame the whole group, many of whom had their killfile in operation
and many of whom weren't even reading all the threads is simply
unrealistic.

I don't blame the whole group, far from it, the majority have been
supportive, understanding and kind in their emails and many of
them have not posted publicly, for various reasons, and I respect
that.

Puke just isn't worth it. Judith must know from her own inbox and
from the people who she did value here, just how those who are "worth
it" viewed her and thought of her. The rest just don't matter. It's
about "hearth dwellers" and "fringe dwellers" (really just knowing how
to sort the trees from the wood).

Now that I have got over the shock of what Helene Rudlin did to
me and with the support of my employers, I am back on an even
keel although a bit battered, I can see the wood from the trees.
I'm humbled by my own weakness in leaving urg, I have never left
a newsgroup before and I regret doing so, I should have taken the
advice of many of you and ignored her as one cannot deal with a
shapeshifter.

I would like to thank many of you for taking my side and who have
been villified by Mrs. Rudlin, for example, Sacha who only stood
up for me as strongly as she did as she knew what was going on
in the background; but, I agree that this is devisive, as mentioned
earlier, solely as it created a divide and rule situation for Mrs.
Rudlin to operate within. It is apparent that most are now aware of
her true colours. A couple of comments from the 2 sole
supporters of Mrs. Rudlin made unkind comments, perhaps
meaning to be comical about Janet returning to urg, i.e. as
Swartzanegger, Janet never left urg, she has at no time posted
that she is/was leaving urg and therefore the unkind comments
are inappropriate.

I will post on urg, I have missed talking over the garden fence but I
can assure you that you will never hear me comment on Mrs.
Rudlin or her postings or future attacks on me by her, the matter is
now in the hands of others and I will not be commenting on urg
with regard to this.

Can I ask that this matter is now allowed to drop, thank you,
sincerely, everyone for your kindness.

Judith