In article , Kathy McIntosh
writes
Sorry to read your news Spider. I know what it feels like as I went
through the same thing with my Dad two years ago. His final illness
was short, but he had six months of heartbreak after Mum died.
Blessings to you and your family. Good gardening.

Same here, Spider,
After Tom died a year ago the garden seemed to lose half its soul if
you know what i mean. Difficult to get motivated to do anything in it
even though it was me that did the gardening an he just appreciated it!

Not sure there's an answer to the feelings, just have to keep going, one
season at a time

Janet

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Janet Tweedy
Dalmatian Telegraph
http://www.lancedal.demon.co.uk