Home |
Search |
Today's Posts |
|
#1
|
|||
|
|||
Grave Solution
Hi
I've been trying to find a solution to the problem of keeping a floral presence on my mum's grave when my siblings and I are too far away to guarantee any kind of regular maintenance. She loved Poppies and someone suggested a pot on her grave with some poppies in it which would then self seed on an annual basis but thinking about pots in my garden and what happens when they're not regularly watered, even in the UK climate this sounds like a bit of a pipe dream to me. My experience is that he things you want to grow in the pots die and then more hardy weeds and grass take over until there's a longer dry spell and then they die too and what you're left with ends up looking like a section of the tundra. In this case there''s a very high chance the whole thing would end up looking neglected which is the last thing we'd want. Can anyone feed back on the above and offer any solutions? TIA M |
#2
|
|||
|
|||
Grave Solution
louisxiv wrote in message ... Hi I've been trying to find a solution to the problem of keeping a floral presence on my mum's grave when my siblings and I are too far away to guarantee any kind of regular maintenance. She loved Poppies and someone suggested a pot on her grave with some poppies in it which would then self seed on an annual basis but thinking about pots in my garden and what happens when they're not regularly watered, even in the UK climate this sounds like a bit of a pipe dream to me. My experience is that he things you want to grow in the pots die and then more hardy weeds and grass take over until there's a longer dry spell and then they die too and what you're left with ends up looking like a section of the tundra. In this case there''s a very high chance the whole thing would end up looking neglected which is the last thing we'd want. Can anyone feed back on the above and offer any solutions? TIA M If you can visit 4 times a year, a pot with a posy of silk flowers 'of the season' Been there, done that with my father in law's grave. Mike -- .................................... Don't take life too seriously, you'll never get out alive. .................................... |
#3
|
|||
|
|||
Grave Solution
On 07/11/2011 11:37 AM, louisxiv wrote:
Hi I've been trying to find a solution to the problem of keeping a floral presence on my mum's grave when my siblings and I are too far away to guarantee any kind of regular maintenance. This is a tough problem and I'm very interested in any solutions... My Mum's grave is near Camarthen and I don't get there often. -E |
#4
|
|||
|
|||
Grave Solution
"Emery Davis" wrote in message ... On 07/11/2011 11:37 AM, louisxiv wrote: Hi I've been trying to find a solution to the problem of keeping a floral presence on my mum's grave when my siblings and I are too far away to guarantee any kind of regular maintenance. This is a tough problem and I'm very interested in any solutions... My Mum's grave is near Camarthen and I don't get there often. -E If you can visit 4 times a year, a pot with a posy of silk flowers 'of the season' Been there, done that with my father in law's grave. Mike |
#5
|
|||
|
|||
Grave Solution
"'Mike'" wrote in message ... "Emery Davis" wrote in message ... On 07/11/2011 11:37 AM, louisxiv wrote: Hi I've been trying to find a solution to the problem of keeping a floral presence on my mum's grave when my siblings and I are too far away to guarantee any kind of regular maintenance. This is a tough problem and I'm very interested in any solutions... My Mum's grave is near Camarthen and I don't get there often. -E If you can visit 4 times a year, a pot with a posy of silk flowers 'of the season' Been there, done that with my father in law's grave. Mike and it doesn't need permission, someone else's help or cost money :-)) Mike -- .................................... Don't take life too seriously, you'll never get out alive. .................................... |
#6
|
|||
|
|||
Grave Solution
"louisxiv" wrote ...
I've been trying to find a solution to the problem of keeping a floral presence on my mum's grave when my siblings and I are too far away to guarantee any kind of regular maintenance. She loved Poppies and someone suggested a pot on her grave with some poppies in it which would then self seed on an annual basis but thinking about pots in my garden and what happens when they're not regularly watered, even in the UK climate this sounds like a bit of a pipe dream to me. My experience is that he things you want to grow in the pots die and then more hardy weeds and grass take over until there's a longer dry spell and then they die too and what you're left with ends up looking like a section of the tundra. In this case there''s a very high chance the whole thing would end up looking neglected which is the last thing we'd want. Can anyone feed back on the above and offer any solutions? In a similar situation myself Mum being buried on the S. coast. The problem there is also that they only allow headstones and cut the grass with strimmers during the summer so certainly can't have any summer stuff and shrubs, roses etc are forbidden anyway. To give some flower, after trying a pot of chionadoxa that dissappeared, I planted those small early daffodils all over her grave together with the blue chionadoxa, the flowers and leaves then finish before they start cutting and the bulbs have survived and have increased. To remember her I also planted the same bulbs at home which tells me when they should be flowering on her grave. Now thinking perhaps some autumn flowering cyclamen might do OK too and seeing as they appear to be taking over our front garden it won't cost much to try some. -- Regards Bob Hobden W.of London. UK |
#7
|
|||
|
|||
Grave Solution
On 2011-07-11 23:09:06 +0100, Janet said:
In article , louisxiv says... Can anyone feed back on the above and offer any solutions? The poppy idea won't work IMO; weeds would seed into the pot and poppy seeds need full light to germinate. You will have to ask the cemetary owner what is permitted there. Someone asked me for a permanent, rabbit proof planting at the foot of their parents headstone (the graveyard gave permission). The deceased were keen cooks and gardeners. I planted rosemary,(for remembrance) sage (for wisdom) and thyme, plus snowdrops and minute narcissus minimus. Janet. Thanks everyone for your feedback. I've learned a lot from it, not least that Dumfries and Galloway Council are likely to put the kibish on most things anyway. I hadn't though ot bulbs though which I may well try. Thanks again. |
Reply |
Thread Tools | Search this Thread |
Display Modes | |
|
|
Similar Threads | ||||
Thread | Forum | |||
Skimmer Solution | Ponds | |||
watering solution needed | Gardening | |||
squirrels / bird feeder solution | Texas | |||
squirrels / bird feeder solution | Texas | |||
Solution to carrying your coat around while working outdoors - CoatClip | Gardening |