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Kill filing
Sacha wrote: I had no idea Judith was going to post tonight. You mean you're not actually telepathic? But I am very glad she has because she has exposed the malice directed at the very heart of her life and career. Ah, well you see, it's difficult for me to comment on that. I noted in the raspberry thread that she hopped in entirely O.T. to give as good as she got, but couldn't see the bit she *must* have got. But then, that's my problem... no time... awkward schedule... heaps goes by. And I would like just to say this - while I have every sympathy with those who kill file persistent cross posting and off topic trolls, can't kilfile... google! I would also like to point out that many of those who emailed me and Judith about what was done to her said they didn't know about it because they had kill filed Puke. See, if I'm to know who's who, then incorrect names don't help. I understand their reasons for doing so and I sympathise with their impatience with her methods but she, Puke, DID come here purporting to give gardening advice. As a result of that, she should have been read and watched when it became apparent that much of what she wrote was not good advice at all. Must have missed it. What I did notice was on the raspberry thing. Apparently some say a particular variety can be pruned now, some say it can't. Someone (?) unkindly suggested Puce was merely trotting out what's in her gardening books and the clear implication being that said books are wrong! I didn't have the time to go through all that raspberry thread, and so never found out if anyone had posted the science behind why and what... as might explain why a particular plant reacts to seasonal pruning, especially so as to determine it's possible outcome in unseasonal times. IMO, the group and all those asking advice of it, deserve the vigilance of everyone posting here. I.e. policing the group. As opposed to responding with scientific data as may support a difference in opinion. A very few of us adhered to that and as a result, we received a horrible amount of abuse and Judith was subjected to a torrent of it. And returned in (un)kind (-; If you - all of us - want this to be a real group we ALL have to look after it. We ALL have to make sure it is not abused by *anyone*. I am not interested in garden machinery or growing leeks but I did, at least, skim every thread to see what was going on. Policing again! If people don't do that, they miss what was being done to Judith and could be done to others. And miss all the bad behaviour on (mostly) your team. Sorry but that won't do. A couple of years ago, a very valuable poster to this group remarked that people were coming here, taking what they wanted and otherwise contributing nothing. As one who used to regularly contribute, until I felt a cold wind of unwelcoming, now I find it best to just visit, take and leave! She predicted then that this would damage urg and I admit freely that I thought she was exaggerating. I was wrong and she was right and she is another who has gone, as have several other real experts. That "Pull up the ladder Jack, I'm alright" outlook was why Judith was treated so appallingly. Afterwards, several people expressed their private regrets to me in emails but too late. URG has been horribly tainted by this closing of the eyes to what does not affect the individual and it seems to me that it should never be allowed to happen again. IMO, the lesson to be learned from this is that if you kill file over zealously, you lose the thread - literally - and then, you lose the group. If you're a member of a group, then I think it is up to you to make sure the group remains healthy. -- Sacha www.hillhousenursery.co.uk South Devon http://www.discoverdartmoor.co.uk/ |
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