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On 12 Sep, 18:49, "David \(Normandy\)"
wrote: I quit over ten years ago at the same time as the Mrs. Not had a smoke since and certainly no desire to do so. I'd given up several times for varying durations prior to the successful giving up. The key to success seemed to be one of mental attitude. The first few failed times there was an attitude of "I'm trying to give up smoking" - which just seems to cause internal strife. The successful attitude was "I don't smoke". and "I'm a none smoker". If you take that attitude you've already won. Never torment yourself saying "I'd love a smoke" - if you do it's be thin end of the giving up wedge. Just move on. It gets easier. Eventually you'll regard cigarettes as objects of contempt. David thank you very much. I don't know what to say - especially on this forum, if you know what I mean. I'll get there, especially with nice advice like you've just given me. Thank you again )) |
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wrote in message oups.com... On 12 Sep, 18:49, "David \(Normandy\)" wrote: I quit over ten years ago at the same time as the Mrs. Not had a smoke since and certainly no desire to do so. I'd given up several times for varying durations prior to the successful giving up. The key to success seemed to be one of mental attitude. The first few failed times there was an attitude of "I'm trying to give up smoking" - which just seems to cause internal strife. The successful attitude was "I don't smoke". and "I'm a none smoker". If you take that attitude you've already won. Never torment yourself saying "I'd love a smoke" - if you do it's be thin end of the giving up wedge. Just move on. It gets easier. Eventually you'll regard cigarettes as objects of contempt. David thank you very much. I don't know what to say - especially on this forum, if you know what I mean. I'll get there, especially with nice advice like you've just given me. Thank you again )) We can't have too many smokers giving up. Otherwise something else will get clobbered for tax. mark |
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On 13 Sep, 14:13, Anne Jackson wrote:
I've been saying that for years... Can you imagine the wailing and gnashing of teeth if everyone's income tax was to rise by five pence in the pound? ;-) That wouldn't happen coz more and more people are healthier, especially in Scotland now and less tax money is being spent on keeping the addicts alive with breathing apparatus, nose tubes, artificial larynx, esophageal speaker box, oxygen etc..., innit dd&tc |
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On 13 Sep, 16:09, Anne Jackson wrote:
I'm treating this seriously, although you posted 'tongue in cheek' because as far as I am concerned it is a _serious_ subject, Helene. It was proved, some years ago (in a 'Panorama' programme, IIRC) that a lifelong smoker pays much more into the Treasury funds through taxation on cigarettes than even the most expensive, worst possible scenario, cancer treatment costs. Sorry to shoot down your argument, but the loss of bar takings, and the number of bar staff made unemployed by the no-smoking legislation in Scotland is _way_ above all the predictions. Ergo, more 'job-seekers allowance' is being paid out. Off course. I was being a bit silly (but also it's therapy for me to kid myself, know what I mean ;o) I know of pubs that still let people smoke. I would like to still see a choice, even though I've made a decision. My decision is personnal, and I suppose is the case for all quiters. Don't worry about bursting my bubble either - that's what conversation is about. In France this summer it was funny to see that everybody was really pleased to tell me that they also had a ban on smoking in public, however it is not applied in restaurants, cafes and bars ... g The number of bankruptcy cases filed by publicans is going to be mind-blowing... so, somebody somewhere is going to pay. People aren't going to be forced to stop smoking by government legislation! Instead they are going to the off-licence and the chip shop/pizzeria/kebab place, and eating and drinking at home, where they can smoke in peace...and their non-smoking pals are joining them! Yeah. It's better at home anyway - I get to smell all that nice smoke for free ;o) |
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In France this
summer it was funny to see that everybody was really pleased to tell me that they also had a ban on smoking in public, however it is not applied in restaurants, cafes and bars ... g Smoke has prevented us from eating at French cafes and restaurants in the UK. There has also been occasions we've stepped through the door at a pub in England and been hit in the face with a cloud of stinking smoke, so we've just turned around and gone out the door again. The impact on pub / restaurant / cafe's works both ways. Only last week we were in a nice French cafe having a couple of coffees wondering whether to have lunch there. Some bloke walked in and stood near us puffing on a cigar. We left. David. |
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On 13 Sep, 16:33, "David \(Normandy\)"
wrote: Smoke has prevented us from eating at French cafes and restaurants in the UK. There has also been occasions we've stepped through the door at a pub in England and been hit in the face with a cloud of stinking smoke, so we've just turned around and gone out the door again. The impact on pub / restaurant / cafe's works both ways. Only last week we were in a nice French cafe having a couple of coffees wondering whether to have lunch there. Some bloke walked in and stood near us puffing on a cigar. We left. My friend Rob opened a pub last year and made it non smoking. At first we were all like 'is he mad?'. But he was right - people slowly came and now it's packed. It is a pub like any other - however the beer is just that little bit better because there's no smoke ;o) http://www.southmanchesterreporter.c...tep_ahead.html |
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Anne Jackson wrote:
The number of bankruptcy cases filed by publicans is going to be mind-blowing... so, somebody somewhere is going to pay. Is it? Really? That's what they said in Ireland. I believe that over there pubs have opened, rather than closed. |
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"Uncle Marvo" wrote in message ... In reply to Amethyst Deceiver ) who wrote this in , I, Marvo, say : Anne Jackson wrote: The number of bankruptcy cases filed by publicans is going to be mind-blowing... so, somebody somewhere is going to pay. Is it? Really? That's what they said in Ireland. I believe that over there pubs have opened, rather than closed. Yes, it is, really. The pubs that are doing OK are the big town ones, the village ones are going to the wall, as they are over here. Bizarrely, my local, which has chucked its customers outside because most of them are smokers, have not had the interior filled up by non-smoking drinkers, like the nsd's said they would do in the fictitious polls commissioned by the powers-that-be in the run up to the only law I believe that has ever been passed in this country based solely on an opinion poll. And all that is fact. I think most of the country based ones are going to the wall due to the drink-drive laws. Gone are the days when people thought it socially acceptable to drive to such pubs, have a few drinks then drive home. This narrows the clientele down to those who get taxi's or have a none-drinking member of their party. The steep price of drinks doesn't help pub trade either, except for the single 18 to 25 years olds with little or no financial responsibilities and lots of spare cash. Undoubtedly heavy smokers will be less likely to go to the pub if they have to go outside into the elements to indulge their addiction. My guess is that over time none-smokers will start to consider pubs as a potential night out again. Smoke filled pubs have certainly cut our custom down over the years as it has other members of our family. We found pubs ok early in the evening, but as they start to fill up with smokers the smog becomes unbearable, so we tended to leave early and head off to the Chinese. As time passes I expect we and other none-smokers will start to drift back to clean air pubs / restaurants as a possible night out, but this takes time. More pubs will probably have gone to the wall by then. David. |
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"David (Normandy)" wrote in message ... As time passes I expect we and other none-smokers will start to drift back to clean air pubs / restaurants as a possible night out, but this takes time. More pubs will probably have gone to the wall by then. David. I have joined 2 clubs and invited to join a 3rd since the smoking ban has been in place :-)) Mike -- www.rneba.org.uk for the latest pictures of the very first reunion and Inaugural General Meeting. Nothing less than a fantastic success. The Royal Naval Electrical Branch Association. 'THE' Association if you served in the Electrical Branch of the Royal Navy www.rneba.org.uk to find your ex-Greenie mess mates www.iowtours.com for all ex-Service Reunions. More being added regularly "Navy Days" Portsmouth 25th - 27th July 2008. RN Shipmates will have a Stand |
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In reply to Martin ) who wrote this in
, I, Marvo, say : On Mon, 17 Sep 2007 13:07:36 +0100, "Uncle Marvo" wrote: In reply to Amethyst Deceiver ) who wrote this in , I, Marvo, say : Anne Jackson wrote: The number of bankruptcy cases filed by publicans is going to be mind-blowing... so, somebody somewhere is going to pay. Is it? Really? That's what they said in Ireland. I believe that over there pubs have opened, rather than closed. Yes, it is, really. The pubs that are doing OK are the big town ones, the village ones are going to the wall, as they are over here. They have been going to the wall for decades. Some, yes. Not most. Mine locals certainly weren't. Bizarrely, my local, which has chucked its customers outside because most of them are smokers, have not had the interior filled up by non-smoking drinkers, like the nsd's said they would do in the fictitious polls commissioned by the powers-that-be in the run up to the only law I believe that has ever been passed in this country based solely on an opinion poll. And all that is fact. In your mind perhaps. Information all freely available, mostly from guv sites. |
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On Sep 13, 2:13 pm, Anne Jackson wrote:
The message from "Mark" contains these words: wrote: On 12 Sep, 18:49, wrote: I quit over ten years ago at the same time as the Mrs. Not had a smoke since and certainly no desire to do so. I'd given up several times for varying durations prior to the successful giving up. The key to success seemed to be one of mental attitude. The first few failed times there was an attitude of "I'm trying to give up smoking" - which just seems to cause internal strife. The successful attitude was "I don't smoke". and "I'm a none smoker". If you take that attitude you've already won. Never torment yourself saying "I'd love a smoke" - if you do it's be thin end of the giving up wedge. Just move on. It gets easier. Eventually you'll regard cigarettes as objects of contempt. David thank you very much. I don't know what to say - especially on this forum, if you know what I mean. I'll get there, especially with nice advice like you've just given me. Thank you again )) We can't have too many smokers giving up. Otherwise something else will get clobbered for tax. I've been saying that for years... Can you imagine the wailing and gnashing of teeth if everyone's income tax was to rise by five pence in the pound? ;-) The Treasury would be in a very bad way if everyone stopped smoking and drinking , the revenue is ginormous even set against smoking induced disease treatment. Judith |
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On 13 Sep, 15:06, Martin wrote:
The concept of somebody, who is terrified of "chemicals" in food, smoking overwhelms me. As much I as do have problems with artificial chemicals in general, my main worry is the use of chemicals in small back gardens by naive and ridiculous people. However what has most overwhelmed me was the realisation of somebody I thought I knew but who turned out to be a ****. |
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wrote in message ps.com... On 13 Sep, 15:06, Martin wrote: The concept of somebody, who is terrified of "chemicals" in food, smoking overwhelms me. As much I as do have problems with artificial chemicals in general, my main worry is the use of chemicals in small back gardens by naive and ridiculous people. However what has most overwhelmed me was the realisation of somebody I thought I knew but who turned out to be a ****. I didn't know we had met!(:-) |
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