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Grow A Little Extra This Year If You Can! Help A Neighbor :)
I have been out of work for over two years now when my company downsized in this poor economy. Times are tough and going to get a whole lot tougher for sure! I'm very lucky in the respect that I'm 61 years old and only have one more year to go till I can retire on social security. That is if that program is still in existence a year from now. Guess what I'm really trying to say is: help your neighbor out a little if you can. I'm planting way more vegetables in the garden this spring than my wife and I could ever use. The reason being, I want to be able to do what I can to help out other less fortunate people in this dire time of need. I plan to put a folding table near the curb on my front lawn and fill it with fresh veggies each day. I'll also have some saved grocery bags on the table and a sign that says FREE ......PLEASE TAKE WHAT YOU NEED BUT REMEMBER OTHERS MAY BE IN NEED TOO! With unemployment being as it is, I would imagine the veggie table will be quite a hit in the neighborhood. It may be truly appreciated by some, others will take advantage and some will won't care either way. This won't deter me one bit. Why? Because I know In my heart that I'm doing the right thing. We all need to help each other right now if we can because the government sure don't give a shit about any of the once middle class population!!! May sound like a crazy idea to some but I was just brought up that way when neighbors still helped neighbors Rich From PA......... Zone 6 |
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I think this is a lovely idea, and I commend your attitude to the inevitable advantage takers.
My Dad worked for the Red Cross for years, and when people would say, "Oh, I don't give to charity in Africa, only 60% of the aid gets through." My dad would always reply, "But what about the 40% that does make a difference? You want me to explain to them that you weren't getting your money's worth so everyone just has to go without?" |
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Grow A Little Extra This Year If You Can! Help A Neighbor :)
"brooklyn1" wrote
(EVP MAN) wrote: time of need. I plan to put a folding table near the curb on my front lawn and fill it with fresh veggies each day. I'll also have some saved grocery bags on the table and a sign that says FREE ......PLEASE TAKE WHAT YOU NEED BUT REMEMBER OTHERS MAY BE IN NEED TOO! You already figured out that there are greedy *******s. I found a much better system for sharing with neighbors is to trade produce with those who also have gardens... everyone grows a different mix of crops so the barter system works well, and it needn't be anything formal... whenever I have extras I leave a bagful at my neighbor's doors and they in turn do likewise. Same here. Oh, I havent the spread you do, but I still grow enough excess in my containers that I bring some over to neighbors. Last year it was a bumper crop of tomatoes and heritage bell peppers that I mostly had too much of. |
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Grow A Little Extra This Year If You Can! Help A Neighbor :)
On Sat, 27 Feb 2010 09:39:14 -0500, "cshenk" wrote:
"brooklyn1" wrote (EVP MAN) wrote: time of need. I plan to put a folding table near the curb on my front lawn and fill it with fresh veggies each day. I'll also have some saved grocery bags on the table and a sign that says FREE ......PLEASE TAKE WHAT YOU NEED BUT REMEMBER OTHERS MAY BE IN NEED TOO! You already figured out that there are greedy *******s. I found a much better system for sharing with neighbors is to trade produce with those who also have gardens... everyone grows a different mix of crops so the barter system works well, and it needn't be anything formal... whenever I have extras I leave a bagful at my neighbor's doors and they in turn do likewise. Same here. Oh, I havent the spread you do, but I still grow enough excess in my containers that I bring some over to neighbors. Last year it was a bumper crop of tomatoes and heritage bell peppers that I mostly had too much of. Another option is to donate to your local food bank. |
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Grow A Little Extra This Year If You Can! Help A Neighbor :)
The food bank would be a good option indeed. We have a homeless shelter about 20 miles away that might be interested in some veggies. I also like the idea of a barter system with the neighbors. I done that last year with the neighbor right next door. The only problem is the fact that we live in town and very few neighbors put out gardens here. There are quite a few professionals in our town, lawyers, doctors, college professors etc. I guess many of these folks have very little need for a vegetable garden or don't really want to rip up a spot on their well manicured properties to put one in. Me, I'm just the opposite! I figure what good is a back yard if it can't give you something in return! Rich |
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Grow A Little Extra This Year If You Can! Help A Neighbor :)
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"cshenk" wrote: Same here. Oh, I havent the spread you do, but I still grow enough excess in my containers that I bring some over to neighbors. Last year it was a bumper crop of tomatoes and heritage bell peppers that I mostly had too much of. Another option is to donate to your local food bank. Oddly, they don't take home small yard grown. Besides, I'd rather delight my neighbors and I do other things for charity. |
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Grow A Little Extra This Year If You Can! Help A Neighbor :)
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brooklyn1 wrote: On Sat, 27 Feb 2010 09:13:33 -0600, wrote: On Sat, 27 Feb 2010 09:39:14 -0500, "cshenk" wrote: "brooklyn1" wrote (EVP MAN) wrote: time of need. I plan to put a folding table near the curb on my front lawn and fill it with fresh veggies each day. I'll also have some saved grocery bags on the table and a sign that says FREE ......PLEASE TAKE WHAT YOU NEED BUT REMEMBER OTHERS MAY BE IN NEED TOO! You already figured out that there are greedy *******s. I found a much better system for sharing with neighbors is to trade produce with those who also have gardens... everyone grows a different mix of crops so the barter system works well, and it needn't be anything formal... whenever I have extras I leave a bagful at my neighbor's doors and they in turn do likewise. Same here. Oh, I havent the spread you do, but I still grow enough excess in my containers that I bring some over to neighbors. Last year it was a bumper crop of tomatoes and heritage bell peppers that I mostly had too much of. Another option is to donate to your local food bank. Food banks don't usually want fresh produce, they have no refrigerated storage facilities. Occasionally I have a glut of lettuce that's too much to pawn off on neighbors because they do likewise, so rather than place it in the composter I bring it to a local golf course restaurant where I know the cooks... they serve it as salads and in turn invite me to many of their events. Many of the local folks who garden gift the local golf course because many of their family members are employed there... college students need seasonal jobs. And golf courses are always looking to employ seniors to drive mowing tractors... I'm asked everytime they see me. Peronally I don't think anyone in the US should be out of a job, there are plenty of jobs that go begging because folks are too ascared to change occupations and/or get their hands soiled or sweat. Getting laid off should be seen as a gift to encourage a career change, usually for the better, instead of a lame alibi to collect unemployment insurance, and for years... shoulld be embarrassed to admit it, especially so publicly. Also, check out the local garden associations. Many of them have or know where there are local community gardens. Free food for the taking, just help them pull a weed or two. Enjoy Life... Dan -- Garden in Zone 5 South East Michigan. |
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Grow A Little Extra This Year If You Can! Help A Neighbor :)
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(EVP MAN) wrote: I have been out of work for over two years now when my company downsized in this poor economy. Times are tough and going to get a whole lot tougher for sure! I'm very lucky in the respect that I'm 61 years old and only have one more year to go till I can retire on social security. That is if that program is still in existence a year from now. Guess what I'm really trying to say is: help your neighbor out a little if you can. I'm planting way more vegetables in the garden this spring than my wife and I could ever use. The reason being, I want to be able to do what I can to help out other less fortunate people in this dire time of need. I plan to put a folding table near the curb on my front lawn and fill it with fresh veggies each day. I'll also have some saved grocery bags on the table and a sign that says FREE ......PLEASE TAKE WHAT YOU NEED BUT REMEMBER OTHERS MAY BE IN NEED TOO! With unemployment being as it is, I would imagine the veggie table will be quite a hit in the neighborhood. It may be truly appreciated by some, others will take advantage and some will won't care either way. This won't deter me one bit. Why? Because I know In my heart that I'm doing the right thing. We all need to help each other right now if we can because the government sure don't give a shit about any of the once middle class population!!! May sound like a crazy idea to some but I was just brought up that way when neighbors still helped neighbors Rich From PA......... Zone 6 Some times a little info can provide food for the table. http://www.culinate.com/articles/our...te_budget_meal If you have a blood sugar concern and favor less carbs and starches you may be able to tweak some of this your way. Bill -- Garden in shade zone 5 S Jersey USA |
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Grow A Little Extra This Year If You Can! Help A Neighbor :)
EVP MAN wrote:
I have been out of work for over two years now when my company downsized in this poor economy. Times are tough and going to get a whole lot tougher for sure! I'm very lucky in the respect that I'm 61 years old and only have one more year to go till I can retire on social security. That is if that program is still in existence a year from now. Guess what I'm really trying to say is: help your neighbor out a little if you can. I'm planting way more vegetables in the garden this spring than my wife and I could ever use. The reason being, I want to be able to do what I can to help out other less fortunate people in this dire time of need. I plan to put a folding table near the curb on my front lawn and fill it with fresh veggies each day. I'll also have some saved grocery bags on the table and a sign that says FREE ......PLEASE TAKE WHAT YOU NEED BUT REMEMBER OTHERS MAY BE IN NEED TOO! With unemployment being as it is, I would imagine the veggie table will be quite a hit in the neighborhood. It may be truly appreciated by some, others will take advantage and some will won't care either way. This won't deter me one bit. Why? Because I know In my heart that I'm doing the right thing. We all need to help each other right now if we can because the government sure don't give a shit about any of the once middle class population!!! May sound like a crazy idea to some but I was just brought up that way when neighbors still helped neighbors Rich From PA......... Zone 6 I always give away excess to neighbours every year and ask nothing in return. But it comes back anyway. David |
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Grow A Little Extra This Year If You Can! Help A Neighbor :)
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says... I have been out of work for over two years now when my company downsized in this poor economy. Times are tough and going to get a whole lot tougher for sure! I'm very lucky in the respect that I'm 61 years old and only have one more year to go till I can retire on social security. That is if that program is still in existence a year from now. Guess what I'm really trying to say is: help your neighbor out a little if you can. I'm planting way more vegetables in the garden this spring than my wife and I could ever use. The reason being, I want to be able to do what I can to help out other less fortunate people in this dire time of need. I plan to put a folding table near the curb on my front lawn and fill it with fresh veggies each day. I'll also have some saved grocery bags on the table and a sign that says FREE ......PLEASE TAKE WHAT YOU NEED BUT REMEMBER OTHERS MAY BE IN NEED TOO! With unemployment being as it is, I would imagine the veggie table will be quite a hit in the neighborhood. It may be truly appreciated by some, others will take advantage and some will won't care either way. This won't deter me one bit. Why? Because I know In my heart that I'm doing the right thing. We all need to help each other right now if we can because the government sure don't give a shit about any of the once middle class population!!! May sound like a crazy idea to some but I was just brought up that way when neighbors still helped neighbors I would never do something like that. It would lead to being personally marked as "always" having a surplus, which I would "owe" to people, with zero understanding that I had worked for the extra food. Many people blow things out of proportion, and have an amazing sense of entitlement. If I wanted to donate food, I would do so via a food bank, soup kitchen, shelter, etc. This isn't about being "selfish." It's about having healthy boundaries. I have learned to sort of depersonalise any generosity, because so many prospective recipients just have no limits to what they expect, demand, and feel entitled to from me. Several years ago, I had a next-door neighbour who repeatedly started conversations by pointing out the alleged surplus of food in the very small container garden I had at the time. She was directly trying to get me to "admit" to having far more than I could possibly eat before it spoiled. So of course it wouldn't be any sacrifice for me to hand it over. This was the only subject she seemed interested in bringing up, except for mentioning her overall self-pity about her financial/housing situation, having just entered the adult world of jobs and bills and responsibility (poor baby.) That was part of a more general problem with her and another neighbour (an obnoxious divorced housewife) in that building who perceived me as generally having more resources than them. Including the fact that I actually get off the couch and do stuff on the weekends, rather than sit around whining like them. They both eventually became openly hostile about my refusal to be used as a personal servant and sugar-mommy. The above-described individual actually told other neighbours that she had considered physically damaging my plants as revenge for refusing to be personal "friends" with her. And, no, there wasn't really any surplus. And no, I didn't really have more resources than them, except for more willingness to work at something. -- Get Credit Where Credit Is Due http://www.cardreport.com/ Credit Tools, Reference, and Forum |
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Grow A Little Extra This Year If You Can! Help A Neighbor :)
That's very true about some people expecting all they can get at another persons expense. I'm sure I won't see any of the neighbors in my yard helping me to remove the sod for my new vegetable bed. That's too much like work! Rich |
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