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I have been out of work for over two years now when my company downsized
in this poor economy. Times are tough and going to get a whole lot
tougher for sure! I'm very lucky in the respect that I'm 61 years old
and only have one more year to go till I can retire on social security.
That is if that program is still in existence a year from now. Guess
what I'm really trying to say is: help your neighbor out a little if
you can. I'm planting way more vegetables in the garden this spring
than my wife and I could ever use. The reason being, I want to be able
to do what I can to help out other less fortunate people in this dire
time of need. I plan to put a folding table near the curb on my front
lawn and fill it with fresh veggies each day. I'll also have some saved
grocery bags on the table and a sign that says FREE ......PLEASE TAKE
WHAT YOU NEED BUT REMEMBER OTHERS MAY BE IN NEED TOO! With unemployment
being as it is, I would imagine the veggie table will be quite a hit in
the neighborhood. It may be truly appreciated by some, others will
take advantage and some will won't care either way. This won't deter
me one bit. Why? Because I know In my heart that I'm doing the right
thing. We all need to help each other right now if we can because the
government sure don't give a shit about any of the once middle class
population!!!
May sound like a crazy idea to some but I was just brought up that way
when neighbors still helped neighbors

Rich From PA......... Zone 6

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I think this is a lovely idea, and I commend your attitude to the inevitable advantage takers.

My Dad worked for the Red Cross for years, and when people would say, "Oh, I don't give to charity in Africa, only 60% of the aid gets through." My dad would always reply, "But what about the 40% that does make a difference? You want me to explain to them that you weren't getting your money's worth so everyone just has to go without?"
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I have been out of work for over two years now when my company downsized
in this poor economy. Times are tough and going to get a whole lot
tougher for sure! I'm very lucky in the respect that I'm 61 years old
and only have one more year to go till I can retire on social security.
That is if that program is still in existence a year from now. Guess
what I'm really trying to say is: help your neighbor out a little if
you can. I'm planting way more vegetables in the garden this spring
than my wife and I could ever use. The reason being, I want to be able
to do what I can to help out other less fortunate people in this dire
time of need. I plan to put a folding table near the curb on my front
lawn and fill it with fresh veggies each day. I'll also have some saved
grocery bags on the table and a sign that says FREE ......PLEASE TAKE
WHAT YOU NEED BUT REMEMBER OTHERS MAY BE IN NEED TOO!


You already figured out that there are greedy *******s.

Folks where I live used to do exactly what you propose and even placed
very low price tags (really not even enough to cover the costs of
growing, like 10¢ a piece). This was a pay on the honor system but
still hardly anyone actually paid the few pennys plus they grabbed all
they could leaving little for others.

I found a much better system for sharing with neighbors is to trade
produce with those who also have gardens... everyone grows a different
mix of crops so the barter system works well, and it needn't be
anything formal... whenever I have extras I leave a bagful at my
neighbor's doors and they in turn do likewise.

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"brooklyn1" wrote
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time of need. I plan to put a folding table near the curb on my front
lawn and fill it with fresh veggies each day. I'll also have some saved
grocery bags on the table and a sign that says FREE ......PLEASE TAKE
WHAT YOU NEED BUT REMEMBER OTHERS MAY BE IN NEED TOO!


You already figured out that there are greedy *******s.

I found a much better system for sharing with neighbors is to trade
produce with those who also have gardens... everyone grows a different
mix of crops so the barter system works well, and it needn't be
anything formal... whenever I have extras I leave a bagful at my
neighbor's doors and they in turn do likewise.


Same here. Oh, I havent the spread you do, but I still grow enough excess
in my containers that I bring some over to neighbors. Last year it was a
bumper crop of tomatoes and heritage bell peppers that I mostly had too much
of.

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On Sat, 27 Feb 2010 09:39:14 -0500, "cshenk" wrote:

"brooklyn1" wrote
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time of need. I plan to put a folding table near the curb on my front
lawn and fill it with fresh veggies each day. I'll also have some saved
grocery bags on the table and a sign that says FREE ......PLEASE TAKE
WHAT YOU NEED BUT REMEMBER OTHERS MAY BE IN NEED TOO!


You already figured out that there are greedy *******s.

I found a much better system for sharing with neighbors is to trade
produce with those who also have gardens... everyone grows a different
mix of crops so the barter system works well, and it needn't be
anything formal... whenever I have extras I leave a bagful at my
neighbor's doors and they in turn do likewise.


Same here. Oh, I havent the spread you do, but I still grow enough excess
in my containers that I bring some over to neighbors. Last year it was a
bumper crop of tomatoes and heritage bell peppers that I mostly had too much
of.


Another option is to donate to your local food bank.


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The food bank would be a good option indeed. We have a homeless shelter
about 20 miles away that might be interested in some veggies. I also
like the idea of a barter system with the neighbors. I done that last
year with the neighbor right next door. The only problem is the fact
that we live in town and very few neighbors put out gardens here. There
are quite a few professionals in our town, lawyers, doctors, college
professors etc. I guess many of these folks have very little need for a
vegetable garden or don't really want to rip up a spot on their well
manicured properties to put one in. Me, I'm just the opposite! I
figure what good is a back yard if it can't give you something in
return!

Rich

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Same here. Oh, I havent the spread you do, but I still grow enough excess
in my containers that I bring some over to neighbors. Last year it was a
bumper crop of tomatoes and heritage bell peppers that I mostly had too
much
of.


Another option is to donate to your local food bank.


Oddly, they don't take home small yard grown. Besides, I'd rather delight
my neighbors and I do other things for charity.

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On Sat, 27 Feb 2010 09:13:33 -0600, wrote:

On Sat, 27 Feb 2010 09:39:14 -0500, "cshenk" wrote:

"brooklyn1" wrote
(EVP MAN) wrote:


time of need. I plan to put a folding table near the curb on my front
lawn and fill it with fresh veggies each day. I'll also have some saved
grocery bags on the table and a sign that says FREE ......PLEASE TAKE
WHAT YOU NEED BUT REMEMBER OTHERS MAY BE IN NEED TOO!

You already figured out that there are greedy *******s.

I found a much better system for sharing with neighbors is to trade
produce with those who also have gardens... everyone grows a different
mix of crops so the barter system works well, and it needn't be
anything formal... whenever I have extras I leave a bagful at my
neighbor's doors and they in turn do likewise.


Same here. Oh, I havent the spread you do, but I still grow enough excess
in my containers that I bring some over to neighbors. Last year it was a
bumper crop of tomatoes and heritage bell peppers that I mostly had too much
of.


Another option is to donate to your local food bank.


Food banks don't usually want fresh produce, they have no refrigerated
storage facilities. Occasionally I have a glut of lettuce that's too
much to pawn off on neighbors because they do likewise, so rather than
place it in the composter I bring it to a local golf course restaurant
where I know the cooks... they serve it as salads and in turn invite
me to many of their events. Many of the local folks who garden gift
the local golf course because many of their family members are
employed there... college students need seasonal jobs. And golf
courses are always looking to employ seniors to drive mowing
tractors... I'm asked everytime they see me. Peronally I don't think
anyone in the US should be out of a job, there are plenty of jobs that
go begging because folks are too ascared to change occupations and/or
get their hands soiled or sweat. Getting laid off should be seen as a
gift to encourage a career change, usually for the better, instead of
a lame alibi to collect unemployment insurance, and for years...
shoulld be embarrassed to admit it, especially so publicly.
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In article ,
brooklyn1 wrote:

On Sat, 27 Feb 2010 09:13:33 -0600, wrote:

On Sat, 27 Feb 2010 09:39:14 -0500, "cshenk" wrote:

"brooklyn1" wrote
(EVP MAN) wrote:

time of need. I plan to put a folding table near the curb on my front
lawn and fill it with fresh veggies each day. I'll also have some saved
grocery bags on the table and a sign that says FREE ......PLEASE TAKE
WHAT YOU NEED BUT REMEMBER OTHERS MAY BE IN NEED TOO!

You already figured out that there are greedy *******s.

I found a much better system for sharing with neighbors is to trade
produce with those who also have gardens... everyone grows a different
mix of crops so the barter system works well, and it needn't be
anything formal... whenever I have extras I leave a bagful at my
neighbor's doors and they in turn do likewise.

Same here. Oh, I havent the spread you do, but I still grow enough excess
in my containers that I bring some over to neighbors. Last year it was a
bumper crop of tomatoes and heritage bell peppers that I mostly had too
much
of.


Another option is to donate to your local food bank.


Food banks don't usually want fresh produce, they have no refrigerated
storage facilities. Occasionally I have a glut of lettuce that's too
much to pawn off on neighbors because they do likewise, so rather than
place it in the composter I bring it to a local golf course restaurant
where I know the cooks... they serve it as salads and in turn invite
me to many of their events. Many of the local folks who garden gift
the local golf course because many of their family members are
employed there... college students need seasonal jobs. And golf
courses are always looking to employ seniors to drive mowing
tractors... I'm asked everytime they see me. Peronally I don't think
anyone in the US should be out of a job, there are plenty of jobs that
go begging because folks are too ascared to change occupations and/or
get their hands soiled or sweat. Getting laid off should be seen as a
gift to encourage a career change, usually for the better, instead of
a lame alibi to collect unemployment insurance, and for years...
shoulld be embarrassed to admit it, especially so publicly.


Food banks in my area only accept food that has a USDA stamp of
approval. Starving neighbors won't complain if you give to them.

I say be the greedy *#$%& and learn to preserve your own food. If you
learn to preserve your own food, nothing you grow will go to waste.
Extra lettuce can feed the chickens or put in the compost pile. And yes
people that are down and out in the city can convert an old shed to a
hen house. Just can't have that noisy rooster. If your community does
have a law preventing chickens - I would do it anyways and see if anyone
complains. Having chickens harms no one. Stupid laws are made to be
broken.

Enjoy Life... Dan

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In article ,
brooklyn1 wrote:

On Sat, 27 Feb 2010 09:13:33 -0600, wrote:

On Sat, 27 Feb 2010 09:39:14 -0500, "cshenk" wrote:

"brooklyn1" wrote
(EVP MAN) wrote:

time of need. I plan to put a folding table near the curb on my front
lawn and fill it with fresh veggies each day. I'll also have some saved
grocery bags on the table and a sign that says FREE ......PLEASE TAKE
WHAT YOU NEED BUT REMEMBER OTHERS MAY BE IN NEED TOO!

You already figured out that there are greedy *******s.

I found a much better system for sharing with neighbors is to trade
produce with those who also have gardens... everyone grows a different
mix of crops so the barter system works well, and it needn't be
anything formal... whenever I have extras I leave a bagful at my
neighbor's doors and they in turn do likewise.

Same here. Oh, I havent the spread you do, but I still grow enough excess
in my containers that I bring some over to neighbors. Last year it was a
bumper crop of tomatoes and heritage bell peppers that I mostly had too
much
of.


Another option is to donate to your local food bank.


Food banks don't usually want fresh produce, they have no refrigerated
storage facilities. Occasionally I have a glut of lettuce that's too
much to pawn off on neighbors because they do likewise, so rather than
place it in the composter I bring it to a local golf course restaurant
where I know the cooks... they serve it as salads and in turn invite
me to many of their events. Many of the local folks who garden gift
the local golf course because many of their family members are
employed there... college students need seasonal jobs. And golf
courses are always looking to employ seniors to drive mowing
tractors... I'm asked everytime they see me. Peronally I don't think
anyone in the US should be out of a job, there are plenty of jobs that
go begging because folks are too ascared to change occupations and/or
get their hands soiled or sweat. Getting laid off should be seen as a
gift to encourage a career change, usually for the better, instead of
a lame alibi to collect unemployment insurance, and for years...
shoulld be embarrassed to admit it, especially so publicly.


Also, check out the local garden associations. Many of them have or know
where there are local community gardens. Free food for the taking, just
help them pull a weed or two.

Enjoy Life... Dan

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(EVP MAN) wrote:

I have been out of work for over two years now when my company downsized
in this poor economy. Times are tough and going to get a whole lot
tougher for sure! I'm very lucky in the respect that I'm 61 years old
and only have one more year to go till I can retire on social security.
That is if that program is still in existence a year from now. Guess
what I'm really trying to say is: help your neighbor out a little if
you can. I'm planting way more vegetables in the garden this spring
than my wife and I could ever use. The reason being, I want to be able
to do what I can to help out other less fortunate people in this dire
time of need. I plan to put a folding table near the curb on my front
lawn and fill it with fresh veggies each day. I'll also have some saved
grocery bags on the table and a sign that says FREE ......PLEASE TAKE
WHAT YOU NEED BUT REMEMBER OTHERS MAY BE IN NEED TOO! With unemployment
being as it is, I would imagine the veggie table will be quite a hit in
the neighborhood. It may be truly appreciated by some, others will
take advantage and some will won't care either way. This won't deter
me one bit. Why? Because I know In my heart that I'm doing the right
thing. We all need to help each other right now if we can because the
government sure don't give a shit about any of the once middle class
population!!!
May sound like a crazy idea to some but I was just brought up that way
when neighbors still helped neighbors

Rich From PA......... Zone 6


Some times a little info can provide food for the table.

http://www.culinate.com/articles/our...te_budget_meal

If you have a blood sugar concern and favor less carbs and starches
you may be able to tweak some of this your way.

Bill

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EVP MAN wrote:
I have been out of work for over two years now when my company
downsized in this poor economy. Times are tough and going to get a
whole lot tougher for sure! I'm very lucky in the respect that I'm
61 years old and only have one more year to go till I can retire on
social security. That is if that program is still in existence a year
from now. Guess what I'm really trying to say is: help your
neighbor out a little if you can. I'm planting way more vegetables
in the garden this spring than my wife and I could ever use. The
reason being, I want to be able to do what I can to help out other
less fortunate people in this dire time of need. I plan to put a
folding table near the curb on my front lawn and fill it with fresh
veggies each day. I'll also have some saved grocery bags on the
table and a sign that says FREE ......PLEASE TAKE WHAT YOU NEED BUT
REMEMBER OTHERS MAY BE IN NEED TOO! With unemployment being as it
is, I would imagine the veggie table will be quite a hit in the
neighborhood. It may be truly appreciated by some, others will take
advantage and some will won't care either way. This won't deter me
one bit. Why? Because I know In my heart that I'm doing the right
thing. We all need to help each other right now if we can because
the government sure don't give a shit about any of the once middle
class population!!!
May sound like a crazy idea to some but I was just brought up that way
when neighbors still helped neighbors

Rich From PA......... Zone 6


I always give away excess to neighbours every year and ask nothing in
return. But it comes back anyway.

David

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I have been out of work for over two years now when my company downsized
in this poor economy. Times are tough and going to get a whole lot
tougher for sure! I'm very lucky in the respect that I'm 61 years old
and only have one more year to go till I can retire on social security.
That is if that program is still in existence a year from now. Guess
what I'm really trying to say is: help your neighbor out a little if
you can. I'm planting way more vegetables in the garden this spring
than my wife and I could ever use. The reason being, I want to be able
to do what I can to help out other less fortunate people in this dire
time of need. I plan to put a folding table near the curb on my front
lawn and fill it with fresh veggies each day. I'll also have some saved
grocery bags on the table and a sign that says FREE ......PLEASE TAKE
WHAT YOU NEED BUT REMEMBER OTHERS MAY BE IN NEED TOO! With unemployment
being as it is, I would imagine the veggie table will be quite a hit in
the neighborhood. It may be truly appreciated by some, others will
take advantage and some will won't care either way. This won't deter
me one bit. Why? Because I know In my heart that I'm doing the right
thing. We all need to help each other right now if we can because the
government sure don't give a shit about any of the once middle class
population!!!
May sound like a crazy idea to some but I was just brought up that way
when neighbors still helped neighbors



I would never do something like that. It would lead to being
personally marked as "always" having a surplus, which I would
"owe" to people, with zero understanding that I had worked for
the extra food. Many people blow things out of proportion, and
have an amazing sense of entitlement.

If I wanted to donate food, I would do so via a food bank, soup
kitchen, shelter, etc.

This isn't about being "selfish." It's about having healthy
boundaries. I have learned to sort of depersonalise any
generosity, because so many prospective recipients just have no
limits to what they expect, demand, and feel entitled to from me.

Several years ago, I had a next-door neighbour who repeatedly
started conversations by pointing out the alleged surplus of food
in the very small container garden I had at the time. She was
directly trying to get me to "admit" to having far more than I
could possibly eat before it spoiled. So of course it wouldn't
be any sacrifice for me to hand it over. This was the only
subject she seemed interested in bringing up, except for
mentioning her overall self-pity about her financial/housing
situation, having just entered the adult world of jobs and bills
and responsibility (poor baby.)

That was part of a more general problem with her and another
neighbour (an obnoxious divorced housewife) in that building who
perceived me as generally having more resources than them.
Including the fact that I actually get off the couch and do stuff
on the weekends, rather than sit around whining like them. They
both eventually became openly hostile about my refusal to be used
as a personal servant and sugar-mommy. The above-described
individual actually told other neighbours that she had considered
physically damaging my plants as revenge for refusing to be
personal "friends" with her.

And, no, there wasn't really any surplus. And no, I didn't
really have more resources than them, except for more willingness
to work at something.


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That's very true about some people expecting all they can get at another
persons expense. I'm sure I won't see any of the neighbors in my yard
helping me to remove the sod for my new vegetable bed. That's too much
like work!

Rich



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