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On 24/7/08 12:27, in article ,
"Martin" wrote: On Thu, 24 Jul 2008 11:17:42 +0100, Sacha wrote: On 24/7/08 10:54, in article , "Martin" wrote: On Thu, 24 Jul 2008 19:11:55 +1000, "FarmI" ask@itshall be given wrote: Indeed! My ma-in-law is fond of reminding me that when Charles and Di got engaged and she asked me what I thought of it, I predicted that the marriage would be a disaster. The odds on you being right are better than 50/50 in UK for any marriage. I think the point here is that almost everyone was buying into the fairytale at the time - they *wanted* it to work and be the happy ever after thing. Even the Archbishop that married them made some such comment. I don't agree, I and many others foresaw the result too. I did say 'almost' everyone. One wise old lady said to me that she didn't buy into the 'shy Di' looking up under the eyelashes thing for one minute. I maintained at the break up and still do now that they 'thought' themselves into being in love because it was what both wanted, one way or the other. -- Sacha http://www.hillhousenursery.com South Devon |
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On 24/7/08 14:39, in article ,
"Martin" wrote: On Thu, 24 Jul 2008 12:46:36 +0100, Sacha wrote: On 24/7/08 12:27, in article , "Martin" wrote: On Thu, 24 Jul 2008 11:17:42 +0100, Sacha wrote: On 24/7/08 10:54, in article , "Martin" wrote: On Thu, 24 Jul 2008 19:11:55 +1000, "FarmI" ask@itshall be given wrote: Indeed! My ma-in-law is fond of reminding me that when Charles and Di got engaged and she asked me what I thought of it, I predicted that the marriage would be a disaster. The odds on you being right are better than 50/50 in UK for any marriage. I think the point here is that almost everyone was buying into the fairytale at the time - they *wanted* it to work and be the happy ever after thing. Even the Archbishop that married them made some such comment. I don't agree, I and many others foresaw the result too. I did say 'almost' everyone. One wise old lady said to me that she didn't buy into the 'shy Di' looking up under the eyelashes thing for one minute. I maintained at the break up and still do now that they 'thought' themselves into being in love because it was what both wanted, one way or the other. My opinion was that she probably was and that he was doing what his dad told him to do. That was a story spread around at the time of the bust up ad not a very credible one, IMO. He has been reported as telling a few people that they genuinely in love - I think it was probably an illusion for both of them but nonetheless sincerely meant in its origins. I don't think either are 'bad' people but I really cannot, just can't go in for the Charles/bad, Diana/good thing. And I truly never did get that whole public grief. I think her death was a real tragedy - for her family. -- Sacha http://www.hillhousenursery.com South Devon |
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"Martin" wrote in message
On Thu, 24 Jul 2008 19:11:55 +1000, "FarmI" ask@itshall be given wrote: Indeed! My ma-in-law is fond of reminding me that when Charles and Di got engaged and she asked me what I thought of it, I predicted that the marriage would be a disaster. The odds on you being right are better than 50/50 in UK for any marriage. But given that the common herd can divorce and thus end the disaster it is immaterial what happens in the rest of UK marriages. Have you actually done the stats on the failures of Royal marriages that have ended in divorce? It'd have to be less than 1% I would have thought. Did you foresee Camilla marriage too? No, but then I doubted there would ever be a divorce given the precedents. A marriage can be disasterous without it involving a divorce. The two were so unalike that it was bound to end in misery. I thought that she would be the one to suffer most. She did suffer, but she learned some good avenge tactics along the way. What do you foresee happening next? I predict that the next monarch will be named William. |
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"Martin" wrote in message
On Thu, 24 Jul 2008 12:46:36 +0100, Sacha wrote: I did say 'almost' everyone. One wise old lady said to me that she didn't buy into the 'shy Di' looking up under the eyelashes thing for one minute. I maintained at the break up and still do now that they 'thought' themselves into being in love because it was what both wanted, one way or the other. My opinion was that she probably was and that he was doing what his dad told him to do. She was certainly young and inexperienced enough to convince herself that she was. He was far more guarded in how he reacted to her in public (no surprises there given his media experience) so it was far harder to tell about him. |
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On 25/7/08 23:46, in article
, "FarmI" ask@itshall be given wrote: "Martin" wrote in message On Thu, 24 Jul 2008 19:11:55 +1000, "FarmI" ask@itshall be given wrote: Indeed! My ma-in-law is fond of reminding me that when Charles and Di got engaged and she asked me what I thought of it, I predicted that the marriage would be a disaster. The odds on you being right are better than 50/50 in UK for any marriage. But given that the common herd can divorce and thus end the disaster it is immaterial what happens in the rest of UK marriages. Have you actually done the stats on the failures of Royal marriages that have ended in divorce? It'd have to be less than 1% I would have thought. Did you foresee Camilla marriage too? No, but then I doubted there would ever be a divorce given the precedents. A marriage can be disasterous without it involving a divorce. The two were so unalike that it was bound to end in misery. I thought that she would be the one to suffer most. She did suffer, but she learned some good avenge tactics along the way. What do you foresee happening next? I predict that the next monarch will be named William. Not if you think Charles will step aside for him. Not only is he unlikely to do so, because he's trained for the job all his life, he would have to become monarch before he could give up the throne anyway. And IMO, William won't want it before he has to take it on. -- Sacha http://www.hillhousenursery.com South Devon |
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"Sacha" wrote in message
"FarmI" ask@itshall be given wrote: Hmmmmm Wonder if he'd consider having some County Women's Association visitors? That org is the equiv of the WI and I'm a memeber and have been for years. I don't see why not. I can email you the name of the tours organiser, if you like though it's probably on the internet somewhere. Thank you. I'm still on the same e-mail if you can find it in the bowels of your computer. I have actually seem garden visitors peer through windows that weren't curtained. I was gobbsmacked at such rudeness. Some do it here and it makes me extremely cross. As it should! Luckily, we have a deep flower border all the way round the house which prevents them from walking right up to the windows. But my son opened his garden for charity some years ago and my daughter in law, who was outside, saw some people going up the drive on the way out, walk right up to the windows, put their hand to the pane of glass to shield their eyes and peer right in. She asked them what on earth they thought they were doing and they said quite coolly that they just wondered what 'the place is like inside'. She asked them to move on and they looked at her as if she was quite mad to object to their behaviour. It makes you despair as to what peoples' normal boundaries are these days. The thing is that if we visited their house and peered in the window there would be shrieks of outrage. Yes indeed. We live on a busy road and have a long driveway leading from the front gate to the house. There are public toilets 10 minutes drive in one direction and half an hour in the other. The number of times I've seen people climb the gate (the gate!!!! don't these idiots know aobut the damage that does to gate hinges!) to dive into the shrubbery to relieve themselves astoudns me. I run down the road screaming like a banshee when I see it. They usually leave PDQ but I've been flipped the bird a few times by offenders. I wonder how they'd like it if I pooped in their front yard under their trees? They seem to think that just because it's a farm, they have every right to do as they please. My daughter even found a couple of blokes in one of our paddocks one day hitting golf balls. We were away at the time. She gave them a right bollocking and asked for their names so we could send them a bill if there was any damage caused to the insides of a cow if it ate a golf ball. She didn't get such details but she made her point. It's like the woman here who was overheard telling her small son to go and pee in our garden because she couldn't be bothered to get up and take him to the loo. And the people who become furious when we tell them dogs are not allowed on the premises. Our usual answer to those who rudely persist is to ask them if they take their dogs to Tesco or Marks and Spencer! For years we did allow dogs in but got fed up with piles of visiting cards all over the place and never cleared up by the owners, dog fights or a few near misses and dogs let off the lead to run over the flower beds, so we stopped it altogether. And who could blame you. That is appalling behaviour on the part of the owners. The only time I don't try to control our dogs is when the Jehovah's Witnesses come here and drag along their poor wee children as a marketing ploy. Whilst I feel sorry for the kids, I never stop my usually muddy dogs from jumping on the kids or the women. It makes me furious that safe inside the car is the 'man' but he sends the women and kids out to do the dirty work of recruiting converts. |
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On Sat, 26 Jul 2008 00:10:01 +0100, FarmI wrote
(in article ): "Sacha" wrote in message "FarmI" ask@itshall be given wrote: Hmmmmm Wonder if he'd consider having some County Women's Association visitors? That org is the equiv of the WI and I'm a memeber and have been for years. I don't see why not. I can email you the name of the tours organiser, if you like though it's probably on the internet somewhere. Thank you. I'm still on the same e-mail if you can find it in the bowels of your computer. I have actually seem garden visitors peer through windows that weren't curtained. I was gobbsmacked at such rudeness. Some do it here and it makes me extremely cross. As it should! Luckily, we have a deep flower border all the way round the house which prevents them from walking right up to the windows. But my son opened his garden for charity some years ago and my daughter in law, who was outside, saw some people going up the drive on the way out, walk right up to the windows, put their hand to the pane of glass to shield their eyes and peer right in. She asked them what on earth they thought they were doing and they said quite coolly that they just wondered what 'the place is like inside'. She asked them to move on and they looked at her as if she was quite mad to object to their behaviour. It makes you despair as to what peoples' normal boundaries are these days. The thing is that if we visited their house and peered in the window there would be shrieks of outrage. Yes indeed. We live on a busy road and have a long driveway leading from the front gate to the house. There are public toilets 10 minutes drive in one direction and half an hour in the other. The number of times I've seen people climb the gate (the gate!!!! don't these idiots know aobut the damage that does to gate hinges!) to dive into the shrubbery to relieve themselves astoudns me. I run down the road screaming like a banshee when I see it. They usually leave PDQ but I've been flipped the bird a few times by offenders. I wonder how they'd like it if I pooped in their front yard under their trees? They seem to think that just because it's a farm, they have every right to do as they please. How about a prominent notice informing them of CCTV cameras? Wicked grin -- Sally in Shropshire, UK Posted through uk.rec.gardening |
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On 26/7/08 09:04, in article ,
"Martin" wrote: On Sat, 26 Jul 2008 08:54:47 +1000, "FarmI" ask@itshall be given wrote: "Martin" wrote in message On Thu, 24 Jul 2008 12:46:36 +0100, Sacha wrote: I did say 'almost' everyone. One wise old lady said to me that she didn't buy into the 'shy Di' looking up under the eyelashes thing for one minute. I maintained at the break up and still do now that they 'thought' themselves into being in love because it was what both wanted, one way or the other. My opinion was that she probably was and that he was doing what his dad told him to do. She was certainly young and inexperienced enough to convince herself that she was. He was far more guarded in how he reacted to her in public (no surprises there given his media experience) so it was far harder to tell about him. and that he was still having a relationship with Camilla? We're wildly OT now so all I'm going to say is that this is open to speculation and started with Diana's assertions. He has asserted otherwise. I really didn't think me telling urg we'd visited Highgrove was going to lead to a discussion about divorce or its causes. Only the people behind their own front door know that. -- Sacha http://www.hillhousenursery.com South Devon |
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"Sally Thompson" wrote in message
On Sat, 26 Jul 2008 00:10:01 +0100, FarmI wrote Yes indeed. We live on a busy road and have a long driveway leading from the front gate to the house. There are public toilets 10 minutes drive in one direction and half an hour in the other. The number of times I've seen people climb the gate (the gate!!!! don't these idiots know aobut the damage that does to gate hinges!) to dive into the shrubbery to relieve themselves astoudns me. I run down the road screaming like a banshee when I see it. They usually leave PDQ but I've been flipped the bird a few times by offenders. I wonder how they'd like it if I pooped in their front yard under their trees? They seem to think that just because it's a farm, they have every right to do as they please. How about a prominent notice informing them of CCTV cameras? Wicked grin :-)) Good sugestion but given our location they wouldn't believe it because of the cost of getting such things there. And the alternative is that some tea leaf would probably just be tempted to try to steal it anyway. |
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"Sacha" wrote in message
"FarmI" ask@itshall be given wrote: I predict that the next monarch will be named William. Not if you think Charles will step aside for him. I don't think that at all. I just have this sneaking feeling that Charles won't make old bones. |
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"Martin" wrote in message
On Sat, 26 Jul 2008 08:46:34 +1000, "FarmI" ask@itshall be given wrote: "Martin" wrote in message On Thu, 24 Jul 2008 19:11:55 +1000, "FarmI" ask@itshall be given wrote: Indeed! My ma-in-law is fond of reminding me that when Charles and Di got engaged and she asked me what I thought of it, I predicted that the marriage would be a disaster. The odds on you being right are better than 50/50 in UK for any marriage. But given that the common herd can divorce and thus end the disaster it is immaterial what happens in the rest of UK marriages. Divorce is common in the royal family. But till the divorce of Charles and Di, it wasn't common for the heir to the throne. There was no precedent. Have you actually done the stats on the failures of Royal marriages that have ended in divorce? It'd have to be less than 1% I would have thought. almost the whole of the current generation have divorced. Indeed. But if we look at how many current royals have divorced and how far removed they are from succession, and compare that with what has happened in the past for that same profile, I suspect my figure of 1% would be a high one. Probably more murders or 'accidents' to get rid of inconvenient spouses than Henry's total divorces which is the only precedent for divorce. Did you foresee Camilla marriage too? No, but then I doubted there would ever be a divorce given the precedents. Like Princess Margaret, Anne, Prince Andrew ... None of whom had a realistic chance of succeeding to the throne... A marriage can be disasterous without it involving a divorce. The two were so unalike that it was bound to end in misery. I thought that she would be the one to suffer most. She did suffer, but she learned some good avenge tactics along the way. What do you foresee happening next? I predict that the next monarch will be named William. Amazing! but not king of Oz? 'Monarch' would apply to us too. Oz won't do anything about getting rid of the monarchy till the Queen dies (much to my disgust) and then we'd have to have a referendum and to stage that would take so long that a new monarch would already be a reality. |
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On 26/7/08 11:32, in article
, "FarmI" ask@itshall be given wrote: "Sacha" wrote in message "FarmI" ask@itshall be given wrote: I predict that the next monarch will be named William. Not if you think Charles will step aside for him. I don't think that at all. I just have this sneaking feeling that Charles won't make old bones. He's pretty fit and keeps himself in shape but the longevity gene is certainly on the female side it seems! -- Sacha http://www.hillhousenursery.com South Devon |
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On 26/7/08 12:55, in article ,
"Martin" wrote: On Sat, 26 Jul 2008 20:51:24 +1000, "FarmI" ask@itshall be given wrote: "Martin" wrote in message On Sat, 26 Jul 2008 08:46:34 +1000, "FarmI" ask@itshall be given wrote: "Martin" wrote in message On Thu, 24 Jul 2008 19:11:55 +1000, "FarmI" ask@itshall be given wrote: Indeed! My ma-in-law is fond of reminding me that when Charles and Di got engaged and she asked me what I thought of it, I predicted that the marriage would be a disaster. The odds on you being right are better than 50/50 in UK for any marriage. But given that the common herd can divorce and thus end the disaster it is immaterial what happens in the rest of UK marriages. Divorce is common in the royal family. But till the divorce of Charles and Di, it wasn't common for the heir to the throne. There was no precedent. Famous divorces in the royal family are Henry VIII Edward almost VIII Edward VIII never got divorced. He married a divorcee. Have you actually done the stats on the failures of Royal marriages that have ended in divorce? It'd have to be less than 1% I would have thought. almost the whole of the current generation have divorced. Indeed. But if we look at how many current royals have divorced and how far removed they are from succession, and compare that with what has happened in the past for that same profile, I suspect my figure of 1% would be a high one. Probably more murders or 'accidents' to get rid of inconvenient spouses than Henry's total divorces which is the only precedent for divorce. Did you foresee Camilla marriage too? No, but then I doubted there would ever be a divorce given the precedents. Like Princess Margaret, Anne, Prince Andrew ... None of whom had a realistic chance of succeeding to the throne... It only needed a royal train or plane crash. Which is why they don't all travel together....... A marriage can be disasterous without it involving a divorce. The two were so unalike that it was bound to end in misery. I thought that she would be the one to suffer most. She did suffer, but she learned some good avenge tactics along the way. What do you foresee happening next? I predict that the next monarch will be named William. Amazing! but not king of Oz? 'Monarch' would apply to us too. Oz won't do anything about getting rid of the monarchy till the Queen dies (much to my disgust) and then we'd have to have a referendum and to stage that would take so long that a new monarch would already be a reality. I predict that you will wrong *Somebody* will be monarch because the monarchy never dies. Le roi est mort, vive le roi. -- Sacha http://www.hillhousenursery.com South Devon |
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On 26/7/08 14:39, in article ,
"Martin" wrote: On Sat, 26 Jul 2008 14:01:16 +0100, Sacha wrote: On 26/7/08 12:55, in article , "Martin" wrote: On Sat, 26 Jul 2008 20:51:24 +1000, "FarmI" ask@itshall be given wrote: "Martin" wrote in message On Sat, 26 Jul 2008 08:46:34 +1000, "FarmI" ask@itshall be given wrote: "Martin" wrote in message On Thu, 24 Jul 2008 19:11:55 +1000, "FarmI" ask@itshall be given wrote: Indeed! My ma-in-law is fond of reminding me that when Charles and Di got engaged and she asked me what I thought of it, I predicted that the marriage would be a disaster. The odds on you being right are better than 50/50 in UK for any marriage. But given that the common herd can divorce and thus end the disaster it is immaterial what happens in the rest of UK marriages. Divorce is common in the royal family. But till the divorce of Charles and Di, it wasn't common for the heir to the throne. There was no precedent. Famous divorces in the royal family are Henry VIII Edward almost VIII Edward VIII never got divorced. He married a divorcee. Yes. My mistake being compensated by Henry VIII doing it how many times ) Have you actually done the stats on the failures of Royal marriages that have ended in divorce? It'd have to be less than 1% I would have thought. almost the whole of the current generation have divorced. Indeed. But if we look at how many current royals have divorced and how far removed they are from succession, and compare that with what has happened in the past for that same profile, I suspect my figure of 1% would be a high one. Probably more murders or 'accidents' to get rid of inconvenient spouses than Henry's total divorces which is the only precedent for divorce. Did you foresee Camilla marriage too? No, but then I doubted there would ever be a divorce given the precedents. Like Princess Margaret, Anne, Prince Andrew ... None of whom had a realistic chance of succeeding to the throne... It only needed a royal train or plane crash. Which is why they don't all travel together....... !!! A marriage can be disasterous without it involving a divorce. The two were so unalike that it was bound to end in misery. I thought that she would be the one to suffer most. She did suffer, but she learned some good avenge tactics along the way. What do you foresee happening next? I predict that the next monarch will be named William. Amazing! but not king of Oz? 'Monarch' would apply to us too. Oz won't do anything about getting rid of the monarchy till the Queen dies (much to my disgust) and then we'd have to have a referendum and to stage that would take so long that a new monarch would already be a reality. I predict that you will wrong *Somebody* will be monarch because the monarchy never dies. Le roi est mort, vive le roi. Not of Oz it will become a Republic. Yes but the point that Farm is making is that the preparations for such a referendum and the implementing of it will mean that Australia *will* have another monarch while waiting for the referendum to take place. -- Sacha http://www.hillhousenursery.com South Devon |
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